what do you think about messaging ex after not having spoken in a long time
oh okay this is so important because i got a question about this exact situation a while back and i was like sounds yikes, you do be careful i support you
but then like a week later
eight months after my ex breaks up with me he tells me he loved me and it was the most painful fucking thing to sit through. like how do you tell someone, hey thanks buddy, but you’re like six months too late? where the fuck were you six months ago? when it really would’ve mattered to me? how are you supposed to tell someone you cared so much about you don’t feel anything anymore?
so i guess my point is it’s a bad idea. don’t do it. it’s in the past. you might miss the feelings but leave them. let the past be the past.
