#dearyou

[b0nifacia]

'i don't believe in magic'

the young boy said.

the old man smiled.

'you will, when you see her.'

- atticus

[sexintheraine]

I’m just not ready to let you go…

[bum0305]

The best ‘life hack’ in the world is choosing the right partner to spend it with. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ We agonise over which schools we want to go to, which subject we want to study, which city we want to live in, which apartment/house we want to move to. All important decisions. But when you think about it, we meticulously choose all of those things because ultimately we want to achieve happiness, fulfilment, contentment. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ The right life partner can untether you from being dependent on any of those factors for happiness. You may not be financially ‘successful’ by other people’s standards, you may not live in a fancy apartment, you may not go on expensive vacations - but you will find peace and contentment in each other’s arms at the end of each day the likes of which others can only dream of in their empty mansions. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Job struggles, having to budget carefully, not owning a car, studying for exams - all of these ‘difficulties’ become their own adventures when you have the right person by your side. You’ll marvel at every tiny new blessing as if you’re the luckiest people in the world (like moving from a studio to 1BR apartment, or being able to afford appetizers at a restaurant!) On the flip side, all of the conventional success in the world can turn bitter in your mouth if you’re constantly fighting with the person you’re sharing it. ⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ This isn’t to say that the ‘perfect’ partner is going to fall down to you from the sky, custom built with everything you’ve ever imagined. When we choose anything in life, we list our ‘Must Have’ requirements, and then our ‘Like to Have’ requirements. Don’t confuse those two, no matter what you do. Compromising on a ‘must have’ at the beginning can lead to major issues down the line, so pick those very carefully and stick to them. But treating every ‘like to have’ as a ‘must have’ quality in a potential life partner is going to leave you with unattainable expectations and too rigid a framework.⁣⁣⁣

🥺❤️

~doctor

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[ladyspeechsankofa]

Dear YOU reading this, Thank You for surviving all that has come to end you. Thank You for healing. Thank you for the gift of you. -LadySpeech #DearYou #ThankYou #LadySpeech #LadySpeechSankofa #RealTalk #Message #Survivor #MotivationalCoach #MotivationalSpeaker #MotivationalDominatrix #WiseWords #ShitAuntieSpeechSays #AuntieSpeechSays #FavoriteAuntie https://www.instagram.com/p/CF4j1oXguNh/?igshid=1948muz4gmzh

[dearyouandsincerelyme]

Dear You,

I’ve fallen so hard for you. But I know I need time to heal from the past so that I can be good for you. But I want you. And I hope you’ll wait for me. Because I want to make myself perfect for you. I’m willing to lose everything for you. So please stay and wait for me. I love you.

Sincerely,

Me

[theminorthread]

Day #3437 Jawbreaker - Scrabble

[relungbiru]

Miss you like crazy..

[mlsr-y]

Tunda Dulu

Kamu belum bertemu jodohmu

Aku pun sama

Kalau boleh aku meminta, tunda dulu

Aku tidak tau masa depan akan seperti apa

Tapi bersamamu menyenangkan, dan aku masih ingin serakah meminta waktumu, meminta kehadiranmu, meminta ada-nya dirimu, denganku disini, denganku berbagi

Hingga pembagian waktu berakhir, si perempuan pemilik datang memintamu pulang

Masa sewa-ku habis, lalu perayaan dimulai, aku datang sebagai tamu

Di pojok kamar aku mulai menulis, mengenang apa saja, mempersiapkan waktu kedatanganku sendiri