#decaheda

[butch-kickassidy]

it did the thing

[dorkbending]

your post about jen made me so emotional i'm so happy u had someone like her, i wish all baby gays had a jen

imma be honest... i got kinda emotional writing about her. Like that was such a Bad Time in my life and for one person to almost singlehandedly make it better? It was something else. But SAME TBH. 

Like I would love love love to make or help make some kinda online group that partners baby gays and people who are questioning up with older gays and maybe there could be a penpal program or alternatives for people still in the closet or who’s families wouldn’t understand. Like a big brother program kinda thing but SPECIFICALLY for LGBT+ kids. Oh man I think that would be GREAT tbh ;v; 

[waverlye]

thank fuck you called out dh. i was following him up until he started trying to actively trying to police a wlw event. i don't know how i lasted that long since i've had problems with him when he started with that shit about bob/bell being white. anyways bless you and the bf

i’m really happy that other people have open eyes and can see the damage he is/was doing to the wlw community.

[waverlye]

it's of no surprise to me at all that dh calls anyone who calls him out transphobic, since prior to his transition I watched him for months and months call anyone who disagreed with him homophobic. it's exhausting honestly and a way to shut down anyone who tries to address his straight up problematic, bullying, racist behavior. good for you for calling him out.

thank you, this has been a long time coming. i too saw him calling people homophobic and being insensitive to the trans/poc communities. what really set me off was his reblogging of a male sympathizing text posts, how he sexualizes wlw relationships (just like he sexualized transwomen when writing “Lexa’s Dick”), and how he believes he still has a voice in wlw culture/community despite being a man.

[waverlye]

I'm literally living for you calling out dh and lm on their shit. They get away with everything. He calls everyone transphobic for not agreeing with him or criticizing anything about him, and she's a hypocrite. "Don't tone police me when I'm calling out someone on problematic behaviour" changed to "Talk to someone privately and respectfully or shut up, don't be an ass and publically call them out and mock them". Hmm interesting time to change your opinion eh?

@laynemorgan @decaheda i wish i could tag you in this utter drag lmao

[waverlye]

Also @decaheda im not mocking your transition, I support ur transition, I wish u the best and hope you can fix your sexist personality flaw lol dude don't move on, that's important

[waverlye]

@decaheda unblock my bf and we can end this now

[waverlye]

I, a radfem, hate my transmasc boyfriend