Does everyone want to fall in love still or am I the only person out there now. I'm so confused with how people can just enjoy "hooking up" with other people with no strings attached. I thought physical attatchments also came with emotional attachments because i mean if we were to be talking strictly on sex, it IS called making love for a reason right? Making love, to having sex, to fucking... the same yet so different when it comes to the emotional commitment taken in place during the physical action taken. I feel like I'm one of the few college students out there my age who feels as if they're ready to fall in love now. I'm sick and tired of little games with no commitment involved. I'm tired of having to question what it is that I have with someone. Whether we're just dating or "hooking up" or we're friends with benefits (i've never been in that situation but still...) I just want to be able to fall head over heels for someone. I actually want to get to know someone inside and out and see if I can love someone even with all their imperfections. I don't want a fake relationship anymore. Everyday, we meet different people, and perhaps one day, one we may fall for. Something about them captures us: their sense of humor, their endearing smile, and all the things about them that dumbfound our senses with attachment and we often deceive ourselves concluding that their negative traits are those that don't make a significant difference but they do. They almost always do so we find ourselves disappointed or even devastated after relationships or small crushes and friendships that end. We often lie and tell ourselves that nothing can go wrong. We are so infatuated with the attraction/chemistry there is that we blind ourselves from many of the other traits the significant other may have that we must take in count. I want to fall in love. I want to be able to know every single thing about someone. I want to find all their flaws and fall in love. No one is perfect but someone may be perfect for you.