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considering we started out in close proximity to a very toxic system, it's nice that we have cool system friends now

#⛥ words #definitely helps #i find myself comparing us to the way they used to operate #but I'm realizing that it doesn't matter #and not even just because of what they did to us #but because we all have our own ways of operating #i was trained to hold myself and us to an unreasonably high standard #and I think im starting to unlearn that

I don't like how tsugumi ohba writes female characters sometimes.

You and me both, anonny

#i feel like i must talk about it a lot #because several people have told me im the person who always talks about sexism in death note hahaha #not my intention but i also do think it is good to look at that stuff critically #death note isnt even the one of ohba's works that bothers me the most its actually bakuman and platinum end #anyway its definitely tiresome #ive been enjoying taking in lots of other media that isnt like that lately #definitely helps #p

wake up sad & crushingly lonely, like usual

remember i have bootleg weed & can just smoke now

all is fine

#( ⸻ ooc // )#( tw : drug use )#definitely helps

I just got proselytized to by a woman in walmart. She got better though.

#Sometimes all it takes to open your mind to different people is meeting one in the flesh y'know?#Although being well practiced at delivering compelling and persuasive arguments in favor of LGBT people and rights #And being more willing than average to tolerate the bullshit of well meaning but ignorant religious people #(also knowing how to talk to religious people generally)#Definitely helps #I wouldn't be a career advocate if I wasn't #which is why I'm glad it was me and not some other unsuspecting queer #especially right now when most of the trans people i know have been absolutely worn thin by the election results #You know it's funny #toward the end of the conversation she was talking about how God compells her to bear witness or whatever #And she says usually God tells her go to talk to that man go talk to that woman.#Not me though! I'm different and special LMAO #Oh man that got me so much #What's that you say? God respects my pronouns you say? He respects my gender identity? Curious 🤔#It was not me who needed to meet you but you who needed to meet me! Oh how the turn tables!#Anyway #I am stressed now #My compression top was just absolutely drenched by the end of this it was not fun

I just came back from a two hour and a half mental health trail walk

But it did help with getting me in a creative flow! Just, it was so tiring–

#bluetorchsky #bluetorchsky musings #chatty blue #seriously walk when you can #definitely helps #but god those HILLS #good walk just tired body

honestly, my relationship with my mum has gotten so much better once i (and by extension her) were able to identify so many of our escalating tensions as unaddressed competing needs, exacerbated by (what is most probably) autism.

for example! yesterday we got in a cycle where both of us felt the need to finish our complete sentence without being interrupted by the other -- when new ideas occur we need to say them quickly or we forget them -- we both grew up in households where people interrupt each other lots -- when our blood sugar gets low we get even more annoyed at our sentences getting interrupted. this was also exacerbated by environmental stress -- we were in a busy shop, in the stressful environment of 'i need to move flats this weekend', and we were both hungry and both hadn't realised it.

up until i left home, we wouldn't have been able to address the underlying issue (we're hungry) and kept interrupting each other until we had a fairly explosive argument. but now, we're finally able to get to the root issue, understand why we're both behaving in certain ways, and address the problem before it explodes in our faces.

(disclaimer: neither of us are diagnosed or seeking diagnosis, we are both independent with all adls, and neither of us have any additional support needs)

#personal #like no doubt lots of it is me being 'in my twenties' stupid and not 'blargh i'm a teenager' stupid #but being aware of our prooooooobably autism and how it affects us #definitely helps #seriously she's been here since wednesday in a stressful environment and we haven't had a serious falling out yet #AND we've both recognised we need some time to ourselves so now i'm decompressing until like half 5 and then doing some more work in halls

KSKSJSJSJAJJA I JUST NOTICED my old terminated account been reactivated by staff for a while now but also i've become too cozy here in this acc. 🥲

#also the fact that now i only run two blogs as opposed to like #five or something #definitely helps #but idk #🥲

I got a weighted blanket, and I have both of my cats on me, and let me tell you, I think this is the cure for anxiety.

#if only though #definitely helps #so much better #weighted blanket #cats #cuddles #bed #comfy #anxiety #cured #depression cured #anxiety no more

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