Could you ship me with someone please? I am independent and not afraid to get into an argument with someone over something I stand for/believe in. I am extremely social as well as extremely funny. However, I do have a very pessimistic mind set and have a small level of anxiety. My hobbies are writing, reading, and listening to good quality music. I hope that's enough! Thank you! ^3^
I Ship you with Deidara
Upon first meeting the two of you probably wouldn’t see very eye to eye and may even initially dislike each other to some degree. It would be easy for the two of you to get into an argument upon first meeting or even after knowing each other for awhile. However this is only because the two of you have similar traits and arguing with each other would be almost like arguing with yourself.
After knowing each other for awhile the two of you would develop a soft spot for each other and eventually come to bond over each others hobbies. He would enjoy the fact that you’re independent and aren’t afraid to stand up for yourself and defend what you believe in.
However he’d prefer to fight your battles for you and stand up for you and argue for you. He’s quick to throw himself into fights or arguments on your behalf, even if he has no opinion himself on the matter. He’s quick to jump to your defense and support you in any situation, partly because he doesn’t like to see anyone argue with you or upset you, but also because he feels as though this is a way of showing off to you and believes he could impress you in some way by doing this.
He’s not particularly social, he has no problems talking to people but doesn’t often enjoy speaking to everyone or just anyone, because he often feels he has nothing in common with most people.
But he enjoys the fact that you are social and funny, he sees this as an admirable trait but sometimes gets jealous of your social skills and occasionally gets jealous when you’re TO social and begin receiving what he deems as TO much attention from others, and he quickly becomes protective of you. He doesn’t mind giving you space but there are times when he wants your attention and wants you all to himself.
He has a fairly high opinion of himself and his abilities and tends to be rather optimistic in what he does, which occasionally clashes with your pessimistic mind set. He tries his best whenever your being pessimistic to try to get you to see things from his point of view and to be more optimistic.
But at the same time the two of you make a very strong team because of this. Because being optimistic like he is he often doesn’t see any downsides to things he’s doing and your pessimistic view point often sheds light on plans of his and enlightens him of ways things could go wrong that he never even considered.
This is especially useful to him when he goes on missions, therefore he often likes to get your opinion of things. Even though he’s not always accepting of your pessimistic views.
He tries to be supportive and comforting in his own way towards you, even though it often comes out wrong or seemingly awkward or weird. Rather early in the relationship he notices your small level of anxiety and he does his best to help you get past it in any way he can.
he often tries to distract you from whatever is causing you anxiety. The two of you can easily bond over each others hobbies, because the two of you are fairly interested in different kinds of art forms.
Even though the kind of art he enjoys is different from yours he still appreciates the fact that writing and music are art forms of their own and has a easy time starting conversations and occasionally small arguments over writings or music.
Overall the two of you would click fairly easily even though you would have hiccups throughout, and it would be easy to get into small arguments over little things. But this is only because the two of you have fairly strong personalities and beliefs. But he would be extremely loving and protective of you and wouldn’t like the idea of you doing much without him, he’s rather stay by your side always.
Headcanons between the two of you
Occasionally tries to start small arguments with you if he feels like you are ignoring him, in order to get your attention he’ll say something small that he knows would get your attention to trigger an argument over something mundane.
Doesn’t mind PDA with you he often enjoys showing off in public, especially holding hands or hugging on you. Even more so if he feels like your giving to much attention to other people and he’s beginning to get jealous.
Likes spending as much time with you as possible and really doesn’t like to be apart from you for long, he’s eager to have you move in with him early on and likes being near you.
Enjoys talking to you about your hobbies, he takes a strong interest in your hobbies early on and wants to know why you like what you like and all the different aspects of what you like.
He’s easy to get into arguments with but over small or little things, because he’s easily upset or triggered by the tiniest things, however he doesn’t stay angry long and often forgets about what the arguments were even about. He rarely ever argues about anything that’s actually serious or important.
At first he’s rather blunt and doesn’t notice immediately when you are upset, angry or sad. You would almost have to tell him flat out how you were feeling for him to understand. But slowly over time he begins to pick up on the signs but has a difficult time knowing what to do about it or what to say and he often becomes flustered trying to figure out how to help you.
Others I would Ship you with
Sasori, Sai, Yamato