#demiromantic!dean

[rosemoonweaver]

@righteousdemondean replied to your post

Ohh... I see! But I thought that maybe he'd start developing also romantic love, the one that has nothing to do with sex or anything, just... You know... This love that is usually not really regarded because it's "obvious" while it's actually

I get what you meant! I like that a lot! 

[rosemoonweaver]

Umm, you said you want to talk about around dean, but what about demiromantic dean? What about Dean thinking he's aro, and discovering that he doesn't mind not having lots of sex with Cas, who's Demisexual? Like... For once in his life, he actually enjoys cuddles, and want a private dinner with Cas, and just small kisses and hugs and making coffee to each other? (I'm probably getting things wrong, but I want them to be happy...:( )

Oh, no, you’re not getting it wrong! (At least to my knowledge.) As I understand it, demiromantic people don’t develop romantic attraction until they form a close emotional bond with someone, and honestly, I can absolutely see Dean being demiromantic. I like the headcanon, personally, and I can definitely see how it would work. After so many years of knowing Cas and getting friendly with him, Dean might start to develop feelings he doesn’t completely understand. I like it! 

But, just to throw this out there, aromantic people can be in “romantic” relationships, and they can be very happy and love their partners, it’s just not romantic love. They can still be happy, it’s just a different kind of love and a different kind of expression. 

[boykingdom]

So I read that demiromantic Dean fic and it was SO GOOD OMG. ❤️

I KNOW HOLY SHIT i love it so much because demiromantic!dean is my ultimate headcanon and i’ve never found a fic that features it and it makes me so :)))))

(link to fic if anyone wants it and you should because!!!! it’s so good!!!!!!!)

[sweetonmeclarence]

Headcanons to consider:

Asexual!Castiel who doesn't mind sex but doesn't actively search for it Demisexual!Sam who really only occasionally has ever had a one night stand (soulless!Sam doesn't count here) and doesn't have gender preferences for the most part Aromantic!Charlie who has adored all of her partners and has occasionally tried out the whole sappy romantic thing, but just couldn't get into it Pansexual!Lucifer who loves souls or graces and considers physical form secondary to most other things Polysexual!Gabriel who adores his partners on an individual basis and showers them with gifts (and will always treat his polyamorous partners equally) Demiromantic!Dean who has a hard time getting close on a romantic basis but shows platonic love so frequently that his partners don't usually care all that much Genderfluid!Raphael who doesn't give a fuck as long as their vessel is willing and physically capable of holding an archangel Bisexual!Crowley who actually takes very good care of his partners despite his somewhat prickly personality that he tries to put on (Anyone's welcome to add on if y'all have more/alternate ideas!)