hey im sorry if you're not still doing these but omg i never really "came out" as asexual?? like i didn't know it was a thing but whenever people would talk about sex or my exes would talk about getting sexual i'd be like "nah man i don't wanna do that" but like no one got it? and because i didnt know asexuality was a thing i didnt know how to explain it?? so i'd just be like "i just dont wanna do anything like that like it makes me wanna vomit just at the thought" but then i learned (1/2)
(2/2) what asexuality was and i was just like YESSS and it was never hard for me to tell people because i guess i'd been telling them for years anyway?? so i'd just be like "nah man i'm asexual" lmao but coming out about my gf at the time was a mess. i told some people drunk, some people in person and some people over chat and i actually told my best friends last and it took me 3 years lmao
aw im really happy for u i hope everything’s gone fine like u said it was a mess when u came out to your gf but i hope everything’s cool now
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