I'm not gonna respond to the initial ask bc the original poster asked to disengage, but I do want to talk to yall about something
If you benefit from any form of being the majority (maybe you're abled, or white, or skinny, or cisgender, or whatever), you 100% do hold biases. You hold implicit prejudices in the forms of racism, ableism, transphobia, fatphobia, etc.
Implicit prejudices don't mean you're consciously holding them. It means you've been taught to benefit from them and hold them unconsciously. You may not realize they're there. You may not know you're benefiting from them. But they're there.
And I don't say that to convince you that you're a bad person. I don't know you!! But genuinely I don't think you are. I think you're a person living in an unfair society, and that's okay. It doesn't make you evil. It makes you human.
But the most naive thing you can do is pretend you don't have these biases. To pretend you aren't contributing to ableism or racism or fatphobia I'm some manner
Because you are.
Don't beat yourself up over it. Don't hate yourself. You're okay. You're not a bad person.
But you are prejudiced
Be conscious of it. Catch your thoughts and beliefs when they move in that direction. Pay attention to what systems you benefit from
Be conscious. Be kind.
And be aware.














