At first glance, my life is luxurious, my experiences rich and my growth native to each geographic region of visit: the deserts of United Arab Emirates, the districts of Sri Lanka, the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, the provinces of Canada, the states of America, the intercontinental futuristic vision of Dubai, and back again to the human rights of Canada. I have vividly enjoyed every faucet of it all.
Each country, unique with its own traditions, formed a colourful array of values that composed a multiculturally enthusiastic family. Being the third culture kid, food allowed me to bring a piece of my childhood and past experiences along with me. Just like the sense of hearing is an avenue to connect memories associated with sound from the past to the present, taste buds help you taste every ethnicity no matter where you situate.
My fondest memory of growing up in Dubai revolves around Ramadhan. It was a time of breaks for people of all religions, cultures, and colour. But most importantly, it was special time that brought families together with one simple thing. Food. Many homes around the United Arab Emirates cooked in excess to share with neighbours, friends, and loved ones. Two very common dishes associated with Ramadhan are Harees (an Emirati porridge) and Luqaimat (a sweet crunchy dumpling). Everyday just before sunset, families would line up outside the villas of neighbours' to either give or take one of the dishes. This made Ramadhan, a time of giving, even more meaningful.
As a Muslim, my migration to Canada 11 years ago caused a dent in my Ramadhan spirit and continues to do so every year. Fasting in North America can never feel the same for my family and I. But in order to compensate, my family practises re-creating the memories of our life in Dubai every year for thirty special days. My mother has an authentic Emirati recipe book, which we use to cook both Harees and Luqaimat. Since the trickiest part of food making is getting the right consistencies, recently we have decided to stick to Luqaimat more often than Harees. An excitement rushes through me each time I bite into a crispy sweet dumpling tossed in farm honey. It takes all my worries away and brings flashes of my laidback childhood, where I had the luxury of running around the streets with the desert sand under my feet.
I am grateful for the experiences that have allowed me to not only learn about other cultures but also given me an opportunity to mould into my own individualistic differences as an Emirates-born, ethnically Sri Lankan-Canadian.