♥️🇺🇸♥️ I remember feeling like there was something wrong with me if I didn’t go out every holiday. The truth is, not everyone goes out and parties every holiday. Don’t look at Facebook as an example of what life should be - Facebook tends to only show the best parts of people’s lives. Thinking that every holiday should be like Facebook’s display of holiday gatherings is unrealistic. . Allow yourself to stay home sometimes. Spend time with your family in your own space. Don’t let friends make you feel guilty for getting rest and relaxation - especially if you’re going through a divorce or breakup. We certainly didn’t feel guilty for taking a 2pm nap when we were 16 - why feel guilty now? Yes, you should go out during a divorce/breakup. Yes, you should stay in touch with friends. But stopping to smell the roses is also necessary. And doing so during the holidays is a great way to celebrate your new-fought freedom. You can have just as much fun and relaxation in your own pool, with your own bbq. Go out tomorrow, and let your friends know what a kickass time you had chillin’ by the pool. . #meme #memes #memesdaily #dailymeme #dailymemes #truth #true #verytrue #truestory #divorce #divorced #divorcememe #breakup #breakupmemes #quote #quotes #holiday #holidays #mellow #chillax #love #stressfree #takecareofyou #relationship #relationships #1yos #1yosoriginal #1yearofsingle #newyork #fireworks #stayhome #summer #summerfun #tip #advice #support #healing #blogger #blog #healing #rehab #breakuprehab (at New York, New York)