who are your best friends and what makes them great?
Lilith (scarletsamhain on here) - I can talk to her at just about any hour of the day or night and she’s there. She makes me laugh and I can make her laugh. She doesn’t judge me, she relates. She doesn’t try to tell me what I should be doing, she just supports what I am doing. In other words, doesn’t give unsolicited advice. She’s all around just a really great gal anyone would be lucky to call a friend.
Dixie (dixxie87 on here) - we have known each other for 7 or 8 years now. Though we didn’t really become close/talk frequently till about 2 years ago. But that didn’t stop her from inviting me out to parties at her place right from the beginning. There were even times near the beginning where I would be having a panic attack and she would be there. And since we have become close there’s not a single thing she hasn’t done for me when I have needed her. She’s always there for me to talk to, spends time with me when I need company, and when I was in a dangerous living situation at the beginning of this year she essentially saved my life by letting me stay at her place for a while. We now live together and she’s proven to be a solid roommate as well. She’s smart, loyal, supportive, generous, dedicated, loving, driven, and everything in between. And she always does her best to keep me motivated and on the right path without pushing me too much.
Maggie - Only been friends with her for 3 years now. But already we have been through so much together. We don’t hang as much as we used to which makes me sad. But I still cherish all the time I do spend with her. Given all she has to deal with on a daily basis (diabetes, seizure disorder, and a crazy mom) I really don’t know how she finds the strength to continue to take on all other daily responsibilities. And on top of all that still put so much effort towards being the best friend she can be. She was caught up in my dangerous living situation earlier this year but she never ditched. She was always there to support as well.
Are there times where I still feel lonely ? Yes. But those times are far and few between in comparison to the times I’m overwhelmed by love and support from them. ❤️❤️❤️