Today I am going to share with you abit about my last relationship yes it ended over a year ago but there are now things that I never said anything about that should be addressed – first off the relationship ended when my ex decided he didn’t want to be in one anymore and ended it on my birthday 🙄 Secondly it was what followed 5mths after the relationship that has been the opening of my eyes and seen who he truly is that had made me not trust anything he ever said to me and realized he is a narcissistic persn who doesn’t take responsibility for his actions and loves to play victim. Let’s start at Feb – well school start my son goes to the biggest high school in Auckland – my ex is a groundsman there ( Damian Gannaway) – I would often come to the school afterwards and collect my child sometimes we would go to the library and gets some books out or to see what free ones they were giving away – I call it book rescuing 😂, I recently bought about 100 books on sale as the place I normally buy my books from is closing down permanently 😐, cost of obtaining them from overseas is too costly. One day I got called into one of the deputy principals offices he had a complaint that I was upsetting my exes mental health being on the school grounds – seriously 😳. Anyway I was told I had to wait off the school grounds til the bell rung – so i did and when he complained it was after school hours – anyway 3 weeks later this same deputy principal emails me telling me I can’t come onto the school grounds as my ex apparently had laid some police complaint ( it was completely false – went to the police station and spoke to the police my name wasn’t in their system and no complaint or case number was issued ) so he straight up lied to have me removed from the school grounds – with this information in hand I not only got a letter from the police saying this I got referred to a lawyer. Long story short I had a lot of reasons I could have had him legally charged -my goal was to clear my name and have the school assess how they deal with people who chose to lie about someone to have them trespassed for no reason – not only did I clear my name I told them I wouldn’t be laying charges simply cos I wasn’t vindictive. Part 2 tomorrow 😎
