For the Cat theme self-ship:
gonna put all of these into one post since they've all got black cat in them! I hope y'all are well, thank you so much for the asks!!
Black Cat: Do either of you like haunted houses? Or does either of you get spooked? If so, how do you comfort your f/o / your f/o comfort you?
they don't do much for me, honestly, but I'd imagine ray thinks they can be fun every now and then! he loves a good scare. I am one of two things: either I'm terrified and fearing for my life, or I'm as indifferent and apathetic as can be, there is no in-between LOL. I never do well with horror movies for this reason; I ruin it by talking about how fake it looks all the time 😔
sometimes that stuff can hit hard for me on a bad day, though, and I get REALLY paranoid. ray is ofcourse there to reassure me that it's just for fun and nothing is actually going to hurt me, he'll hold my hand the entire time if I need it :)
Ginger: Who is the most intelligent? Who is the sensible one? Or do you share one braincell?
...honestly, I think we both share one braincell, LOL. we are dumbasses in love. there is no sensibility here. only chaos 😆 if I HAD to pick, though, I'd say I'm the more sensible one by a teeny tiny margin, purely because I have a tendency to overthink.
Calico: Do you consider yourself lucky that you met your f/o? Do they consider themselves lucky that they met you? Why?
YES. I ABSOLUTELY consider myself lucky that I met ray - or, well, rather, got introduced to him. he's done wonders for my mental health and he's helped me through so much... he's quite literally the light of my life. he got me through a depressive episode, for crying out loud - he means a lot to me! I don't know where I would be without him. <3
vice versa, I like to think he feels just as lucky to have met me - to have someone love and appreciate him as unconditionally as I do, even with his flaws. and no matter how often he might fall down, I will always be there to cheer him on and help him get back up again.
I'd normally say I don't believe in soulmates - much less with a fictional character - but... at this point, I don't give a damn how 'weird' it might seem to others. sometimes I do really think he's my soulmate. ^^' he's my everything. 💜