< Image ID: An ask from us that reads "Hey, DNI. We're anti-endo, anti-radqueer, and anti-transid." The user responds with "Oh, we're soo sorry that you used the "build a headmate" tag, something that is typically used by pro-endos, and then got grumpy that we followed your account because we thought you were pro-endo. /sarcasm one of your posts says "We don't 'build headmates' - we use the tag for reach and nothing more." so you intentionally trick people to get views on your profile aka lie to people just to get popular? that's so pathetic and honestly sad that you have to lie and trick people to make them like you and then get mad at them for falling for your trick. either stop using pro-endo tags or stop getting mad at pro-endo people for following you. we aren't even an endogenic system ourself, we just choose to listen to people's lived experiences and except that they had different experiences that they consider their origin. And for other pro-endo or endogenic systems take this as a warning that these hateful people will lie to invade safe spaces and try to use you for views." END IMAGE ID >
Lmao, hi chat! I got this today!
I noticed they followed me, checked out their profile as any normal person would do, and well, they're pro-endo. We do come off as blunt a lot, as we have a hard time with tone, but seriously, why are we getting mad over a simple message educating you on our stances and telling you to not interact.
Mind you, my stances are plastered all over my page, I have never 'lied' and said things about not being anti-endo. We use the tag because we know a lot of anti-endos use the #bah tag to find help for their fragments and we know we'll find other antis that way. We don't take requests from endos, we help fragments. Any pro-endos are asked to unfollow, same with radqueers, transid users, etc.
How the hell are we lying by using a tag? I think it's SO funny that people try to label us a liar when we have never done that, ESPECIALLY about stances. Cause fuck endos, honestly. Not blurring the user because they're honestly hateful, and I recommend antis blocking them to avoid having to deal with them. I do hope they can grow up before their 13th birthday, because life will hit them like a train if they keep getting pissy over someone setting boundaries.
TLDR ;; We don't lie. Thank you for the content
- Vi
Sorry for the long Image ID thing, we're thinking of starting to do that to help people with screen readers and all that :)