Re: aftercare including discussing the scene while cuddling
That, to me, is the absolute best part of my relationship. It can be like a post game wrap up for sports, or just basking in "oh yeah, that part was TOTALLY AWESOME!". Checking in to see if our interpretations of each other's experience in the moment was accurate... Clarifying things that could be misinterpreted, like "I pulled back just cuz that funky nerve in my shoulder was getting pinched, not because I wanted you to stop"
It's truly the most securely bonding part of my dynamic with my Daddy. The trust and vulnerability in scene is only the beginning. It's understanding it and each other outside of the scene that seals it all.
Not really a question, I guess. Just wanted to gush about how much I Love my connection with my partner with someone who would understand.
I love that for you! It really is so good to have that kind of communication after a scene, because so many little things may go misunderstood otherwise. As someone who is autistic, that part is pretty necessary for me to feel good & understood after an intense experience. Plus, it always makes for better groundwork for future play!
I'm so happy you have someone who you can share that with. Always nice hearing from you, Dubs. 💜