#ebany02

have you done one about the role of women within larp? I sense some interesting view points there from you :)

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Well, next one is going to open a can of worms anyway, so why not add that to the list? Sure, why not!

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i am about to start DA:I. wish me luck

YES

GO FORTH. SLAY THE DRAGONS, BANG ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE, FIGHT, WIN, and call me when you back, dahling, I do enjoy our chats.

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ha yeah, that's kinda what i consider me being a dick :p i was of course a teenager, and they're usually stupid dumb fucks... i feel im significantly nicer these days haha

I would say so! As long as you are happy with the steps you've taken and who you are. 

I kinda miss you, and a couple of the others. Might have to brave Crewe when I next have money... hmmmm... brave Crewe and risk running into Joe and my family, or persuade you guys to come down here at some point during the summer... 

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shieldmaidenuk replied to your post:So in dragon age I decided I was gonna romance...

What about trying a super-religious human? That’s my human playthrough plan.

I am actually doing that in an effort to make him seem interesting and I'm pretty sure I'm catching on fire from all the 2nd-hand religion...

lakerose replied to your post:So in dragon age I decided I was gonna romance... 

I am looking at getting the game - is it worth it??

YES. YES IT IS. GET IT. GET THE GAME. ROMANCE EVERYONE (do not romance Solas first though because reasons) but make sure you have lots of free time because I have sunk 150 hours into this game so far

ebany02 replied to your post:So in dragon age I decided I was gonna romance...  

Non magical humans are the worst, and I don’t even have DA:I

They're just so BORING. And the human men? No option make them attractive (well, I couldn't, anyway) so this dude is SUPER bland and generic

jasbraman replied to your post:So in dragon age I decided I was gonna romance... 

I have a challenge for you. Make the male Qunari ugly. I’m pretty sure it’s impossible. 

I'm gonna make a male Qunari but I'm not gonna make him ugly because Cassandra deserves someone beautiful and covered in scars. He's gonna be a sarcastic twat, too.

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ebany02 replied to your post:Every time I try and feminism on facebook and it...

if it helps, you’re one of a couple of people who made me question my previous behavioural patterns and where i learnt them - and do my best to unlearn them!

Thank you. It does help, knowing that I do actually make a difference, no matter how small. 

Fuck I can remember being 13, 14, 15 years old and hating other girls... because they were pretty. I can remember doing things because men told me to do them. I'm fully aware of how hard it is to unlearn toxic behaviours which is why I love it when people tell me I've helped them do that.

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liveag replied to your post: Great

I think the important stuff has been said already. Friends you lose over moving in with someone are probably not friends worth keeping to begin with. So don’t beat yourself up about it.

ebany02 replied to your post: Great

He won’t. He’ll lose people who claim to be friends but actually just want to make him do what they want. His true friends won’t care as long you don’t hurt him.

They ARE his friends, and every time he goes out with them he has a good time and the night always, ALWAYS ends with 'we should do this more often'... and then that's it. Nothing unless he pesters them again and again and again. They're just really shit at remembering things. They're not actively shoehorning him out because of me, I just think it's a side effect of him moving in with me.

dunnimagining replied to your post: Great

But why would his friends being stupid have anything to do with you? Do they actively dislike you?

Depends on how paranoid I'm feeling. I'm fairly certain they don't have a rpoblem with me, but then again, I'm used to people absolutely having a problem with me but not saying anything so it doesn't destroy the group dynamic.