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[the-long-lost-ebony-blog]

on being accused of trolling: a personal rant

Idk I've been holding off on this for a while... gotta keep up the positivity on both blogs you know? i've told myself that i'm past being bothered by hate and past caring what actual trolls think of me. but I just can't keep this to myself any longer. what rly made me okay with putting this out there is the realization that it could help others!! this is @ everybody sending me hate, @ kin haters in general, and for kin who are having the same problem.

blah I can't bold or italicize stuff on here. so if you see caps it's just for emphasis. anyway... 

Jfc, people. I am sick and fucking tired of having to put disclaimers on every single ask i send to request blogs: "i'm not a troll! i promise!" i shouldn't have to do that. i should just be able to nicely ask for an aesthetic or whatever, and get one. i should be able to submit to fictionkin blogs and kin feels/relatable bogs without my messages being ignored "because i'm a troll". 

llike if I was something more "normal" - idk, catkin - I'd still get the generic "otherkin isn't real! you need a therapist" hate from anti-kin. that's the sort of thing that I just kinda laugh at, bc it's pretty baseless and unintelligent. but as Ebony, I get the "Ebony Darkness Dementia Raven Way?? srsly?? you must be joking!! My Immortal is trash!!!!!" hate... from fellow kin. WTF guys??

and btw, it's Ebony Dark'ness Demonica. DEMONICA. Not Dementia, that's horrible and its offensive. 

so I go to a great college that's rly accepting and diverse and there are quite a few kin here. i met a super cute and nice Rose LaLonde the other day -- at least, i thought she was cute and nice. I noticed she had some kin stuff, like stickers and "support otherkin" buttons and so i introduced myself as Ebony. 

her: Aww you're kin too?? Nice! so what are your kintypes? 

me: Well, i am EbonyDark'ness! please use Demonica in place of Dementia. 

her: ..uhhh, My Immortal? (she has kind of a weird look on her face liek she's uncomfortable with me)

me Yeah... (still trying to smile) I'm not trolling don't worry.

her: i'm pretty sure you are.... bye.... (and she leaves, haven't seen her since) 

Ugh!! just... even Irl, where it's really rare to actually introduce yourself in person to another kin, i just can't seem to catch a break. seriously, what the hell? this is not fair. this just just... smh. It hurts, okay? it hurts knowing that about 60% of ppl I talk to, on Tumblr and off, think I'm faking being kin with Ebony. I'm sure a lot of you have the same problem... 

anyway guys, sorry for all the negativity, but the trolls are starting to get to me. 

[the-long-lost-ebony-blog]

reblog if you don't think I'm a troll

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kin blogs accepting mods?

Hiiii! Does anyone know if any active kin advice/positivity/etc blogs are accepting mods right now?like okay I wouldn't be a very active mod, but I still want to? and it would be rly nice for someone to have an extra helper.  Thanks x3

[ebony-kin-care]

xX New Selfcare & Positivity Blog!! Xx

Haaiiii! Okay so I have decied to embrace my canon divergence and like... actually do somethin nice?? thank yall for the support but anyway! time to stop talking about myself. 

This will be a selfcare/positivity blog p much focused on dark/creepy/unusual kin, and kin from weird or obscure canons like mine. Basically for everyne who doesn't get a lot of positivity because of stigma about their kintypes!! 

It'll just be little self care lists themed around like one or two of your kintypes (three and more when I get better at these!!) and positivity when you want it. 

PLEASE be aware that it's just me!! Just one mod! and I'm going back to school soon so I will not have very much time to do these. i just need patience. <3 

Thanks!!! 

xX Ebony