#eclisy

[eclisy]

A ginger fizz and sweet potato fries please 🌙🌙

[moonletkid]

Autumnal kitty ♡ Please do not remove my caption!

[oceaniasupreme]

You are valued

Dear You,

You are valued, I understand that your current situation may not be the best. You may be going through some of the hardest challenges so far and that’s okay. Please know it’s okay not to be fine. Also know that you can go seek help and find people who are willing to listen. Life isn’t always rainbow’s and lollipops. As young adults navigating our way through is a big task, but please keep going. I’ve grown up now and realised it’s actually okay. Life will always throw you curve balls but it gets a little easier to cope as time goes on. You should always reach out to people. Please do your best to reach out if you’ve noticed changes in your emotions, habits and just overall. You are not weak for seeking help. You are strong and brave enough to say you aren’t okay when a person asks how you are. You are valued. You are loved. You are worth it. I hope you read this and seek help from a local service if you struggling. It’s okay to not be okay.

Love you all.

Ash

[oceaniasupreme]

Everyone idealises relationships that appear to be perfect. However a picture can tell a thousand words, to a strangers eye it may look like “relationship goals”. Just know the couple in that picture may not be happy. One may be laughing to bury their sadness from the other. Within this modern world people want to grow up too fast. Have everything that as an adult you have, although they want it during adolescence. Often those who try to grow up too fast, regret it. Cherish your adolescent years I’ve grown to learn. With time the right one will come along. Trust me they’ll be more that “relationship goals”. It will be a companionship based upon love, trust, strength and most of all support. As a teenager you will encounter love that more often doesn’t work out. They can tell you they love you but really it’s just because there is nothing better. It’s a bit like saying you love chocolate when you actually love fruit. Love is blind, you have to look further to figure out if it’s worth the investment. Time is precious, once it’s gone you can’t get it back. Be realistic and devote your time to bettering yourself. You are strong, independent and don’t need a relationship to make you complete. Never try to judge a photo by it's cover because that is just still frame, there’s so many unknown layers behind that.

Thoughts behind a photo

[unflame]

self knowledge questionnaire

i tag: @actionables, @f-reska, @eclisy, @sad365 and @kamgak

take the test and post your results below

rationality

you like clarity and intelligent simplicity and you get frustrated at messy thinking. this can make you seem unreasonably pushy to some, but it is actually a virtue: you are motivated by a horror at pointless effort and a longing for precision and insight into how things and people work. your ability to synthesise and bring order is essential in producing thinking which is truly helpful

authority

you are good at making decisions; you have a clear sense of what needs to be done and what others should be doing. played out inside yourself, this tendency drives you to value willpower and self-control. you may be accused of bossiness. but acting on your desire to dissuade, restrain or guide is often appreciated by others – who might secretly like a clear direction, and some firmness

orderliness

you love it when everything is neat and tidy: when there is a proper way of doing things, and you can tick things off the to-do list and know where everything is. so others, at times, are to you unbearably sloppy and messy. and you run into things that can’t be ordered (a child, a partner, a colleague at work) which drives you slightly nuts. but your desire for order is a good one when it is focussed where it is needed and when you’re okay with a bit of mess

[oceaniasupreme]

You'd hope that your close friends would actually want to see you or spend time with you but then there's always an excuse. Eventually you get tired hearing why it's so hard and you say bye. Shut the door on people who don't show the same love and put in the same amount of effort that you put in for them. I cannot sit here and think about giving another chance only to screw up again.

[unflame]

🌸tagged by @unperverted 🌸 screenshot ur lock screen n home screen and post it i tag: @wones, @eclisy, @xotaebae, @f-reska, @monbaebes, @zicolicous, @peppermingyu, @sad365, @rebomb and @cravings

[unflame]

shuffle tag

♡ I was tagged by @xotaebae thank you and i’m so sorry that this is late. i haven’t been super active on my main recently bc school rip ♡

Rules: Put your playlist on shuffle and answer the questions. no cheating! tag ten others when your done.

title of the first song describes how you will die:

blind - 4minute (this song is the bomb so i’m not complaining)

second song describes your love life:

tomorrow - 방탄소년단 (follow my love life and never look back okay i got this)

third song will be played at your wedding:

잡아줘 - 방탄소년단 (for a wedding this song is a lil sad but it works)

add “in my pants” to the fourth song title:

dream [in my pants] - 수지 x 백현

fifth song will be played at your funeral:

rain - 태연 (bc ppl will be sad when i die)

sixth song is your theme song:

call me baby - exo (oh mY GOD)

seventh song will be played when you think about someone you love:

사랑가시 - mino x taehyun (that’s a lil said holy shit)

add “with a shovel and screwdriver” to the eighth song title:

hush [with a shovel and a screwdriver] - miss a

the ninth song describes your week:

아낀다 - 세븐틴 (i wish)

the tenth song plays when you miss someone:

불꽃놀이 - 선우 x 용화  (YES THIS YES!!!! I APPROVE!!!)

i tag: @helloteaparty, @pixieoppa, @eclisy, @unperverted, @f-reska, @peppermingyu, @monbaebes, @zicolicous and @sad365