Someone threatening to kill themselves to get an ex to come back is exactly emotional abuse (using emotional manipulation to control a current or former intimate partner), and I gotta be honest, whenever I talk to someone who says "He says he'll kill himself if I leave" when said person is also being abusive in other ways, it takes everything in me not to say, "Where is he? I'll bring him some bullets." Because fuck 'em. They're abusers. (Sorry, just had to hope you weren't feeling bad.)
Ah thank you. It helps knowing I’m not alone having this mind-set.












