#elsa needs help

[elsina]

Should I rewatch BoRhap and get all those Ben-Hardy-As-Roger-Taylor feelings all over again or should I watch any other movie because I’m already a fucking mess without adding more emotional stress?

If you have the answer I’d be happy to listen to your reasons, please and thank you

[elsarenard]

When does the next episode of Sherlock air? (I mean I know tomorrow...but timewise)?

[elsarenard]

Might sound dumb but has anyone had any luck with skype therapists? I don’t even know where to start looking...just...know I need some help?

[elsarenard]

So my two sapphic friends and I were again lamenting how there are so few non-bar/club hangouts for LGBTQ people. I want to meet more and potentially find a girlfriend, and since I’m moving out of the country and away from my parents and a state where people get killed for their sexuality, I might finally have a chance. However, as someone who isn’t big on dancing, wants to find a relationship rather than a hookup and mostly just likes a glass of wine rather than shots, how do I meet other wlw? Does anyone have any advice on this? I’ve already tried the internet path and have had a massive failure there... so what else would people suggest for finding LGBT communities?

[elsarenard]

I need help. What are some things you think are a bit over the top on romance in fic that often don’t happen in real life? I’ll give you an example- bed covered in rose petals. Basically over the top romantic gestures that happen regularly in fic. That sort of thing. Any romantic fic tropes you can think of because that would be super helpful?