♛ fill in the blanks | fluff otp edition — xander & bennett.
who’s more likely to find who wearing their clothes? — bennett does this :/// he wears xander’s shirts n shit :/// xander prob wouldnt even fit in bennett’s clothes :///
who enunciates hand holding? — they both do this bc they clingy af.. it just depends on who’s faster and gets to grab the other’s hand first.
who likes having their hair washed by who? — i feel like they both do ?? but like xander absolutely loves it when bennett washes his hair ??
who likes to slow dance? — well tbh idk about bennett but like xander lowkey loves slow dancing :// bc he gets to spend time aND be super close to his baby :// he just never admits that he loves it tbh
muse that’s more likely to fall asleep with their head in the others lap? — i think they both would ?? bc like xander likes to rest his head in bennett’s lap (lowkey hoping to have his hair played with) if bennett is like .. idk, reading in bed etc ?? but i can also see bennett resting his head in xander’s lap when they’d be like ?? watching a movie or something ??
muse that does all the cuddling in a blanket fort? — pffffttt they both do the cuddling.. as if u could keep them from cuddling each other in a blanket for :// (or in general..)
who hogs most of the covers at night? — xander has an awful habit of doing this tbh
muse who nuzzles the others shoulder to get them to give them a head rub? — why ??? can i see bennett doing this to xander ?? kfgdlfgdlg how cute
how do they share a desert? two forks or one? — two forks bc otherwise xander would end up feeding it all to bennett bc he is a Gentleman™ gkdlfgdlkfg lmao
who gets jealous more easily? — i have a feeling that they both get jealous of each other w/ other people but like.. xander is The Worst™ :// not only does he got super jealous super easily, he’s also the one who shows it in a more :// vivid way.
who gets angered more easily? — xander gets so angry so easily n i hate him sm :///
how do they go to sleep at night? — together obviously. but they never fall asleep before they get their usual cuddles and i love you’s in !! but lbr they always fall asleep cuddling.
who gets the most shoulder rubs? — bennett does !!! especially when he’s pregnant, xander gives him all the shoulder rubs, along with other rubs too like feet n back in general !!! (and tummy rubs!!!!)
what are there arguments/fights like? how often do they fight? — their arguments are usually about super silly things like who loves who more etc like not very serious right ?? yeah so their more serious fights are a lot more nastier tbh :// like xander usually yells and says a lot of shit that he NEVER means and maybe throws like a lamp or some shit like that :/// n bennett just.. takes it and cries :/// like me… rn, im crying bc :((
who is more likely to throw things in fights? — do we even have to….. its xander obviously.
how do they make it up to each other/apologize after an argument? — by cuddles n kisses !!! and of course they always talk things through. n sometimes xander even buys something little for bennett to like ?? butter him up a lil ?? stuff like flowers etc.
do they have nicknames for each other? — well i mean idk about bennett but like.. xander is super big on the nicknames as u might have noticed :// like he probably never calls bennett by his name, it’s always something like baby, darling, sweetheart, honey, angel ://
caring for each other while ill, how does the other muse go about it? — well i feel like they’re very similar when it comes to that ?? like xander for an example, is super caring n like forces him to stay in bed or something n he gives him loads of cuddles, draws him baths and fends him some warm soup n medicine when needed :///
who’s more likely to be patching the others wound? — lmao bennett would be patching xander up lbr.
muse that says ‘I told you so’, after they come home from the beach and other muse is burnt to a crisp while whining how bad it hurts for not listening and putting on sunblock after the other muse repeatedly told them they’d get burnt? — ahahaha bennett is the one to tell xander “i told u so” bc xander says he doesnt need any sunscreen, he wont even get burnt ha ha life is easy !!! but the next u know he’s v burnt n very whiny ://
your otp has a newborn baby, who gets up in the middle of the night when he/she cries? — weLL, bennett tries to get up to take care of their lil emilia n other babies but xander will always try to beat him to it and get there first bc his (future) hubby is gonna need all the rest he can get tbh !!!
your muse’s of the otp reaction to finding the others crying about something? and how do they make them feel better? — xander goes into a protective mode tbh :// he always goes n cradles his baby into his arms and wipes his tears n gives him cuddles n kisses to make him feel better and :// when bennett would be ready to talk, he’d ask why was he crying n all that stuff :(
what would they be like as parents? — the best kind tbh. xander would be the lil more stern one when it’d come to scolding their babies but he’d also be the one who pretty much dangles their toddlers upside down while the toddler giggles jfdkdfgl. and they’re both gonna be super protective over their babies too ://
what would they have been like as childhood sweethearts? — prob pretty much the same as they’re now, bennett would’ve drawn the soft side out of xander :(
who initiates taking a bath together? — i feel like they both do that ?? whenever one of them feels like taking a bath ??
who likes who playing with their hair? — well xander very much loves having his hair played with and even more so when that someone playing with his hair would be bennett !!
the place they mostly likely accidentally fall asleep together? — couch tbh ?? i think.
when it came to romantic surprises, xander was definitely not one for those. surely he thought they were nice to make & receive, but coming up with them? absolutely not xander’s forté. his creativity only limited to art, not to romantic surprises. but considering that the older man rarely ever cooked ( due to his lack of actual skills in the kitchen area ), a home cooked meal for the boy, along with a candlelit apartment definitely should’ve been enough of a surprise. but xander truly had no idea how some people were able to do it: make sure the food didn’t get burnt, set the apartment & the table nicely, all whilst trying to look good themselves. yet somehow he’d managed to do it all as well: the apartment was somewhat done ( what with dimmed lights, few candles here & there, & the dinner table set all nicely with soft music playing in the background ) & the food was almost done as well. though xander didn’t allow himself to feel proud of himself yet, he wasn’t sure if the food even tasted good since now the only thing still missing, was his pregnant lover. — *:・ﾟ✧ @elusives
who is more likely to raise their voice? — definitely xander. he always raises his voice when he gets like.... real mad...
who threatens to leave but never actually does? — neither bc i doubt that bennett would do that aaand ↓
who actually keeps their word and leaves? — xander, but he NEVER ever leaves permanently. he always comes back after a few hours.
who trashes the house? — xander always… :/
do either of them get physical? — noooo neverrrr.
how often do they argue/disagree? — about mundane and non-serious stuff nearly daily but then the big fights and arguments are really, really rare. almost like non-existed tbfh.
who is the first to apologise? — probably xander bc he’s weak as fUCK lmao
SEX:
who is on top? — xander.
who is on the bottom? — bennett.
who has the strangest desires? — lmao… xander lbr.
any kinks? — dont they… have a slight daddy kink…dfgfklgd
who’s dominant in bed? — definitely xander lmao.
is head ever in the equation? — most of the time yes :))
if so, who is better at performing it? — bennett gives better blowjobs but trust me, xander knows how to use that tongue of his too :–)))
ever had sex in public? — most likely yes lmao
who moans the most? — bennett…
who leaves the most marks? — …. xander tbfh
who screams the loudest? — bennett (:
who is the more experienced of the two? — definitely xander.
do they ‘fuck’ or ‘make love’? — they mostly make love but sometimes they fuck too.
rough or soft? — most of the time soft lbr but xander can get a bit rough sometimes as well if wanted and asked :–)
how long do they usually last? — long enough to satisfy them both lbr
is protection used? — usually yes but there are times when it just… is forgotten. or when they’re trying for a baby or the bun is already in the oven, then no.
does it ever get boring? — omg definitely not.
where is the strangest place they’d have sex? — probably like… a club’s bathroom or their car ahaha.
FAMILY:
do your muses plan on having children/or have children? — yes they plan on having loaaads of children, as many as they can lbr
if so, how many children do your muses want/have? — they want soo many babies and they’re expecting their first one im cryign my lil babs are having a bABY
who is the favorite parent? — b….ennett… or both :–)
who is the authoritative parent? — definitely xander ahaha
who is more likely to allow the children to have a day off school? — bennet?? yes.
who lets the children indulge in sweets and junk food when the other isn’t around? — yikes… xander.
who turns up to extra curricular activities to support their children? — bennett and / or both!!! xander will go too if he’s able to.
who goes to parent teacher interviews? — they both definitely try but usually bennett.
who changes the diapers? — they both do that, whoever has the time.
who gets up in the middle of the night to feed the baby? — whoever gets to the crib first lbr so they both get up.
who spends the most time with the children? — bennett only bc he’s at home whilst xander is working to get some money to support the fam :–)
who packs their lunch boxes? — bennett.
who gives their children ‘the talk’? — either both or xander.
who cleans up after the kids? — b…ennett.
who worries the most? — bENNETT DEFINITELY smh
who are the children more likely to learn their first swear word from? — xander… :///
AFFECTION:
who likes to cuddle? — they both love cuddling.
who is the little spoon? — mostly bennett but when xander feels like being the little spoon then he is the little spoon.
who gets naughty in the most inappropriate of places? — fucfkinf xander..
who struggles to keep their hands to themself? — xANDER ALWAYS HAS TO TOUCH THE BOOTY
how long can they cuddle until one becomes uncomfortable? — for a pretty long time.
who gives the most kisses? — they both give lots of kisses to each other.
what is their favourite non-sexual activity? — cuddling.
where is their favourite place to cuddle? — t…heir bed???
who is more likely to playfully grope the other? — xander: must touch The Booty..
how often do they get time to themselves? — for now, they get loads of time for themselves but after the baby arrives.. not that much.
SLEEPING:
who snores? — i don’t think either of them snores???
do they share a bed or sleep separately? — obviously they share a bed..
if they sleep together, do they cozy up together or lay far apart? — litERALLY ALL TANGLED UP IN EACH OTHER i hate thIS
who talks in their sleep? — xander mumbles a lot in his sleep…
what do they wear to bed? — idk why but i feel like bennett wears underwear and one of xander’s shirts to bed, whereas xander is shirtless but has sweatpants / boxers on.
are either of your muses insomniacs? — sadly xander is a bit of an insomniac ://
can sleeping pills be found by the bedside? — sometimes…… from xander’s side :/
do they wrap their limbs around each other or just lay side by side? — literally tangled up in each other… to the point where xander doesnt know where his skin ends and where bennett’s begins lmao
who wakes up with bed hair? — bennett.
who wakes up first? — that depends i think?? whether or not does bennett have classes and xander work in the morning??
who prepares breakfast in bed for the other? — they do that to each other occasionally!!!
what is their favourite sleeping position? — i… feel like either spooning or bennett attached to xander’s side with his head on his chest?? maybe??
who hogs the sheets? — why do i feel like bennett hogs them… all the time…
do they set an alarm each night? — if they have somewhere to be the next day, then yes.
can a television be found in their bedroom? — i think so yes??
who has nightmares? — xander… rip.
who has ridiculous dreams? — bennett??
who sprawls out and takes up most of the bed? — xander.
who makes the bed? — bennett.
what time is bed time? — maybe like.. around 11pm?? 12pm??? depends.
any routines/rituals before bed? — well ya kno… the basics.. (showering), brushing teeth.. cuddling with a bit of kissing.
who’s the grumpiest when they wake up? — xander… yikes.
WORK:
who is the busiest? — both bc bennett has school stuff and xander has work stuff :/
who rakes in the highest income? — xander…
are any of your muses unemployed? — i mean?? bennett kind of is??? i think???
who takes the most sick days? — x..ander???
who is more likely to turn up late to work? — xander :):):)
who sucks up to their boss? — oh my … i dont knwo???
what are their jobs? — well xander is works at an art gallery but also sells some of his paintings… and bennett is a uni student ??
who stresses the most? — bennett.
do your muses enjoy or despise their careers/occupations? — xander loOOOVES his job.
are your muses financially stable? — yes.
HOME:
who does the washing? — bennett.
who takes out the trash? — xander.
who does the ironing? — bennett.
who does the cooking? — bennett.
who is more likely to burn the house down just trying? — x…ander.
who is messier? — xaNDER
who leaves the toilet roll empty? — xander does this. always.
who leaves their dirty clothes on the floor? — xander. smh
who forgets to flush the toilet? — i dont think either???
who is the prankster around the house? — neither??
who loses the car keys when it comes time to go somewhere? — xander.
who mows the lawn? — xander.
who answers the telephone? — whoever?? gets there first??
who does the vacuuming? — bennett or xander if he’s forced to do that :):)
who does the groceries? — both, either individually or together.
who takes the longest to shower? — ???? bennett
who spends the most time in the bathroom? — ???????? bennett maybe
MISCELLANEOUS:
is money a problem? — sometimes?? like when they have babies, at times the money is going to be tight but they’ll make it??
how many cars do they own? — one car…. one motorcycle bc xander refuses to let go of it rip
do they own their home or do they rent? — ummmm.. i think they rent now but when they start looking for a bigger house, they’ll buy it ?? u know, they’ll own the house
do they live near the coast or deep in the countryside? — umMMmm… maybe near the coast???
do they live in the city or in the country? — in the city.
do they enjoy their surroundings? — i think so yes.
what’s their song? — i mean… u tELL ME
hwat do they do when they’re away from each other? — they constantly just… text and call each other… i hate their clingy asses… not rly tho
where did they first meet? — oh my g od i dont remember have we plotted that ouT??
how did they first meet? — ↑↑↑↑↑ ???? o mhyofd
who spends the most money when out shopping? — xander????
who’s more likely to flash their assets? — fuckf… xander.
who finds it amusing when the other trips over? — that’s bennett or neither tbh.
any mental issues? — i meAN…..
who’s terrified of bugs? — umm….. either neither or bennett.
who kills the spiders around the house? — xander:))
their favourite place? — naturally….. their home:):)
who pays the bills? — xander.
do they have any fears for their future? — oh mYY… probably something bad happening thats going to stop them from getting the future they want :(
who’s more likely to surprise the other with a fancy dinner? — xander.
who uses up all of the hot water? — xandEr.
who’s the tallest? — xANDER
who’s more likely to just randomly hop into the shower with the other? — i can assure u that xander does this nearly daily
who wanders around in their underwear? — xander when he’s too lazy to put clothes on lmao
who sings the loudest when singing along to the radio? — …. again, xander bc he’s annoying
what do they tease each other about? — i jUST HAD THIS ON MY MIND A SECOND AGO BUT I FORGOT rip… probably about being sappy??? and stuff like that??
who is more likely to cringe at the other’s fashion sense at times? — i….. bennett??
do they have mutual friends? — a couple probably.
who crushed first? — bOTH
any alcohol or substance related problems? — noooo never
who is more likely to stumble home, drunk, at 3am? — yikes… xander
“ send in two (or more) names and I’ll fill all this out about the ship! ”
GENERAL :
rate the ship - awful | ew | no pics pls | i’m not comfortable | alright | i like it! | got pics? | let’s do it! | why is this not getting more attention?! | the otp to rule all other otps
how long will they last? - i am going to bet my head that these two will spend the rest of their lives together. i’m like .. very, very convinced that’s going to happen.
how quickly did/will they fall in love? - is it really cheesy if i say that with xander, it was love at first sight :( or at least the falling in love process was pretty quick :(
how was their first kiss? - i think it was a bit awkward at first but also really like gentle and soft?? like just testing the waters out at first, lips probably only brushing against each other (maybe even with a bit of smiling!!!! aahhh!!!!) before a proper kiss that most likely left them both breathless afterwards :(
WEDDING :
who proposed? - xander !!!! proposed !!!!!
who is the best man/men? - i think their closest friends will be the best men??
who is the bridesmaid(s)? - ???? ↑
who did the most planning? - definitely bennett.. xander doesn’t care about the planning that much lmao
who stressed the most? - iiiiiii think both ?? hopefully bennett not too much bc he’s got that bun in the oven™ :–)
how fancy was the ceremony? - back of a pickup truck | 2 | 3 | 4 | normal church wedding | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | kate and william wish they were this big.
who was specifically not invited to the wedding? - honestly?? i have no idea.
SEX :
who is on top? - xander (–:
who is the one to instigate things? - i think they both do??
how healthy is their sex life? - barely touch themselves let alone each other | 2 | 3 | 4 | once a couple weeks, nothing overboard | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | they are humping each other on the couch right now.
how kinky are they? - straight missionary with the lights off | 2 | 3 | 4 | might try some butt stuff and toys | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | don’t go into the sex dungeon without a horse’s head
how long do they normally last? - i think that really depends ??
do they make sure each person gets an equal amount of orgasms? - i think so maybe?? i’m not sure o:
how rough are they in bed? - softer than a butterfly on the back of a bunny | 2 | 3 | 4 | the bed’s shaking and squeaking every time | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | their dirty talk is so vulgar it’d make dwayne johnson blush. Also, the wall’s so weak it could collapse the next time they do it.
how much cuddling/snuggling do they do? - no touching after sex | 2 | 3 | 4 | a little spooning at night, or on the couch, but not in public | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | they snuggle and kiss more often than a teen couple on their fifth date to a pillow factory.
CHILDREN :
how many children will they have naturally? - as many as they can !!!!
how many children will they adopt? - probably none :(
who gets stuck with the most diapers? - iii feel like xander would offer to do the nappy changings just because bennett had to go through all the pain and the aches during the pregnancy so the least xander can do is change some diapers (:
who is the stricter parent? - sighs. xander :(
who stops the kid(s) from doing dangerous stunts after school? - whichever is home, really.
who remembers to pack the lunch(es)? - bennett !!!!
who is the more loved parent? - i think both but xander is making me say bennett, rip
who is more likely to attend the pta meetings? - they both would probably try to attend, but eventually xander would just let bennett handle all that stuff ahaha lmao
who cried the most at graduation? - bennett probably.. lmao
who is more likely to bail the child(ren) out of trouble with the law? - xander !!
COOKING :
who does the most cooking? - definitely bennett.
who is the most picky in their food choice? - this definitely isn’t xander but if it’s not bennett either, then it’d be their kids lmao…
who does the grocery shopping? - i feel like they do the grocery shopping together :(
how often do they bake desserts? - occasionally, not too often.
are they more of a meat lover or a salad eater? - m…..eat ?? i think
who is more likely to surprise the other(s) with an anniversary dinner? - if this is about a home cooked anniversary dinner, then it’s bennett.. unless xander asks his mum to cook something really good and then he surprises bennett with that lmfao im crying
who is more likely to suggest going out? - definitely xander.
who is more likely to burn the house down accidentally while cooking? - THIS IS DEFINITELY XANDER BYE
CHORES :
who cleans the room? - bennett… :–))
who is really against chores? - xander because he hATES doing (some) chores sm
who cleans up after the pets? - both, but i feel like xander would do it the most ???
who is more likely to sweep everything under the rug? - ahaha definitely xander
who stresses the most when guests are coming over? - …. bennett :D
who found a dollar between the couch cushions while cleaning? - most likely bennett bc xander… cleaning the couch cushions?? pffttt
MISC :
who takes the longer showers/baths? - honestly i have no idea?? bennett??
who takes the dog out for a walk? - probably xander does it more but i bet sometimes they do it together :( especially when little emilia is born :(
how often do they decorate the room/house for the holidays? - i think.. every year?? if not much, then at least a little bit.
what are their goals for the relationship? - to get married !!! and have more babies !!! live happily ever after !!!!
who is most likely to sleep till noon? - xander!!! definitely!!! that lazy little shit…
who plays the most pranks? - i doubt that they do pranks to each other :(
he’s got his arms wrapped around his fiancé & happily resting his head on his shoulders. “ hi baby. “ nate whispered with a lazy smile spreading across his features. “ i’ve got something scheduled for us today, we’re going to a tuxedo fitting in like an hour or two, sounds alright? “
“nonsexual acts of intimacy - select from the following for my muse to respond to: ”
♞ = caring for each other while ill.
❝ i told you to stay away from me while i’m sick! ❞ xander pouts as he reaches over the boy’s body to place the empty soup bowl to the tray on the nightstand. he shakes his head at his sick lover before sitting back down on the bed, sniffling a bit as he reaches over to press his hand against bennett’s cheek & then his forehead to feel his temperature. ❝ but nooo, you just had to take care of me & get sick too, didn’t you? ❞ he teases with a light chuckle.
even despite xander’s previous attempts of getting the younger boy away from him when he’d been feeling sick earlier that week, the boy hadn’t left & that was exactly how they’d ended up in the current situation : a sick bennett & a sniffly xander trying to nurse him back to health. so, the older man fixes his lover’s fringe before he lays down & slips underneath the covers. ❝ —— my poor baby, poor silly baby. ❞ he coos at bennett, wrapping his arms around the male’s petite body only to pull him closer. he tangles their legs together and rubs the tip of his nose against bennett’s cheek before leaving some kisses there. ❝ my silly baby. i caused you this horrible flu & now i must cuddle you back to health! ❞ xander announces, chuckling at the little groan he receives back.
♠ = your muse adjusting their jewelry/neck tie/etc. & ♔ = finding your muse wearing their clothes // combined.
he keeps messing up the bow tie, he can’t get it right even with the help of a mirror. he’s not even in the mood to go out to some overly fancy party, especially not without bennett. the whole party is dumb & he’s only going because he’s a momma’s boy & she wants them there. but when bennett had informed xander that he isn’t feeling too good & is going to stay at home, xander had wanted to whip out his phone & call his mum, tell her that they can’t come. but he’s being forced to go, & not just by his mother. the only thing he wants is to stay at home with his pregnant lover & lounge around, not spend his night with posh people he doesn’t even know, pretending he gives a shit about what they’re saying.
so, when another attempt of tying the bow tie fails, xander lets out a very frustrated groan & gives up, bracing his hands against the bathroom counter. he huffs out & looks up at the mirror again, only this time making eye contact with his fiancé ( yes, fiancé ! ). his facial expression visibly softens at the sight of a small smile coming from bennett & xander is close to melting. his heart flutters as he turns around & then recognizes the shirt his lover is wearing. it’s his t-shirt & it falls past the boy’s mid-thigh & truly, the sight is enough to melt xander to the ground. the boy looks soft & tiny in his clothing, even with a baby bump trying to make itself known underneath the baggy clothing. there truly is nothing the older man loves more than seeing his baby all dressed up in his clothes.
before xander can register it, he already has his lover in front of him & smaller hands are working on the bow tie. he slumps against the bathroom counter, hands finding their way to steady bennett’s hips & pulling the younger boy so close that he can feel the seven month baby bump against his own stomach. ❝ i don’t know how you’re expecting me to leave you when you’re looking all soft & adorable in my clothes, ❞ xander pouts down at him. he feels like a petulant child, but he really doesn’t want to go & he’s not keeping it as a secret. ❝ i really, really don’t want to go without you. please baby, don’t make me go. ❞
