Because I find that people will often ask me this question and have no want of an honest answer, I will do so because many here care enough to hear a truthful reply. "So Wil, how are you?"
You are so kind to ask. I’m doing well. I’m so happy right now. I’m doing work I’m proud of, with people who respect and value me. I am married to my best friend, who is the greatest partner I could ever ask for. There is still a current of tremendous pain running though my life, that’s probably always going to be there in some measure, but it isn’t overwhelming me the way it sometimes does.
And I’m trying this new thing where I believe people when they tell me I’m a good person, instead of appearing to accept it, while actually dismissing it as someone just being nice. So far, it feels pretty awesome.
Thank you for asking after me. Your compassion and empathy are inspiring.