If we had a child, or anyone, and we caught them doing something
inappropriate, we would not amplify it with our words. We would identify
what it is we do not want, and then out of it would come the rocket of
desire of what we do want, and then we would just visualize, visualize,
visualize, until we find peace within our vision. When you make someone
and their action the heart of a vision that you've spent time on -- your
relationship improves, your experience is better, and they receive the
benefit of the experience.
But if you catch them, and see them, and worry about it, and put
mechanisms in place to prevent it, now you have not only amplified it, you
have now made a commitment that is hooking you both into that, until
usually it gets big enough that you break apart, and then you attract
others to fulfill that role.
--- Abraham
Our Love,
Jerry and Esther