Equarigender: An affinitive sentiogender wherein one experiences a connection to femininity/fiaty, masculinity/miaty, and nonbinarity ONLY through their attraction to FIN/fiaspec, MIN/miaspec, and nonbinary individuals respectively. A combination of sapphogender, vincia/achillegender, and enbiagender.
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A gender that is dependent on one’s attraction. It may only exist (or feel as if it only exists) in the context of being attracted to someone and always takes on the same or similar qualities as the object of such attraction.
In other words, an equarigender person feels mlm, wlw, and nblnb, but doesn’t quite feel an attachment to miaty/masculinity, fiaty/femininity, or nonbinarity outside of this equaric attraction.
It’s not quite the same as reflectigender or similar genders because it need not necessarily be a fluid gender. It can be thought of as a condi-multigender whose parts fluctuate depending on the context or situation, but does not change in “composition.” Ultimately, though, it is unique and up to the individual to define.
(Note: mlm and wlw do not equate to binary-loving-binary; they can include MIN/FIN and and all m/fiaspec identities)
Inspired by this equaric flag.
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