Toxic Masculinity in Roswell, New Mexico
During a class discussion very early on in our watching of Roswell, New Mexico, we were tasked with giving examples of any notable characteristics that we felt the main characters of the show possessed. When it was time for Nathan Parsons' character, Max Evans, to be discussed, I immediately blurted out,
"Emotional!"
While on the surface this may be the exact opposite of what toxic masculinity entails, the emotional behavior of Max is less about expressing innermost desires and more about thoughtless, emotion-driven, selfish action.
Whenever someone needs saving, Max is always there. While this fairytale hero may sound perfect, he's really being reckless and often putting others he loves in harm. Surely he could save more people if he wasn't constantly putting his heart at risk of dying (again). He will immediately save anyone without a thought to himself or, more specifically, the impact that his recklessness will have on the others that need to take care of him. Whenever he goes through the process of healing another, he will greatly weaken himself. He once did this so much that he ended up dying, forcing Liz and Michael to genius out a way to bring him back to life. Even though it eventually ends in a happy ending (as we do still have a Max with us) the trauma that this inflicted on not only Liz and Michael, but Isobel and Rosa and all main members of the cast, is incredible. Then, later on, when his newly transplanted heart begins dying, instead of telling the incredibly smart people in his life so that they might try to save him yet again, he waits and pretends that nothing is happening so as to enjoy the time he has left with them. In this case, Max was only thinking of himself, even when he may have convinced himself that it was in the interest of his loved ones. He didn't think about how his sudden passing might effect the people who deeply care about him. How shut off from emotions does one have to be in order to ignore these impacts?
It turns out that there are many toxic tropes that occur in male film roles, particularly those in the police force. While Roswell, New Mexico does do a good job of including non-males in the police force (such as Sheriff Valenti and the new one that succeeded her) there are still some stereotypes that they couldn't help but hit on. One common occurrence is the male policeman neglecting the needs of his wife and kids for the greater good. While not directly applicable, Max still manages to hurt his family in the pursuit of what he thinks is right. In season 1, Max greatly risks the secret of his alien family getting out because he couldn't resist telling Liz. While his love for Liz is commendable, he told her about Isobel and Michael without first consulting them, taking it upon himself to decide the right time to expose them.
To Max's credit, he isn't the only male with pent up emotions in this show. Michael never admits his feelings for Alex for a very long time. He also pushes Maria away in what ends up as a tug of war between Alex and Maria for Michael's love, with him helping pull for both sides at whatever time that he deems fit. Michael also isolated himself from his siblings for years, going long spans of time without so much as a phone call. He didn't want to talk about his want for home or the questions he so desperately needed the answers to; he'd rather drink away his sorrows.
Now, in season 3, we find that all the siblings ought to have empathic abilities, but Isobel proves to be the only one to successfully do it. Are Michael and Max's emotions so blocked off that they can't bring themselves to realize the emotions of other people, even when their alien abilities should allow them that insight? While RNM proves to be a progressive show heading in the right direction, there are some tropes, it seems, that even those with the best intentions can't help but reflect.













