Hey I just realized you've addressed trades and crate sanctity, but how do you handle the removal of too small bones (you mentioned this specifically) or crate/bedding cleaning?
I know this is a bit of an older ask, I’ve been a bit preoccupied obv but I thought of this ask last week when Creed retreated to his crate and sort of just expected to be left alone when he was done playing with a rough-and-tumble bulldog puppy. Said puppy had not been taught crate sanctity and had tried to pursue him into the crate, leading to Creed’s very dumb-founded realization that his crate was less safe than he’d previously thought. I shooed puppy away once I realized what had happened and shut the crate door to give poor Creed a break. 😂
Too small bones I trade for, always. Not worth reaching in and possibly getting bit. I do try to take chews away before they hit that “too small” status. I had a puppy earlier this week that has been snarling and growling at his owners when they reach down to take a treat. They’ve been dog-whispering it, making that stupid noise and smacking him on the side whenever he does it. Unsurprisingly, he’s been getting worse. I showed the husband what to do instead and, also unsurprisingly, he didn’t listen and recently got snapped at for his troubles. The wife approached me asking for me to show her because she doesn’t want to be forced to get rid of their puppy they just got 3 weeks ago, and I showed her the same no-muss no-fuss trades and by the end of it she was able to get things from her puppy without a fight. The only problem was getting stuff that was small enough to be swallowed- most dogs unwilling to give things up will try to hurriedly swallow when they see someone reaching for something, so the advice there was the same. Either let him have stuff he can swallow and don’t try to take it from him, or ask for it back before it hits that point.
As far as cleaning in a safe place like a crate, generally I advise doing it when the dog is not present. Your folks specifically have a fenced yard that you can just toss the dogs out into, sure. But even just banishing the dog from the room solves the problem of the dog that guards their crate.