Hello! I messaged you a while ago about being a teaching assistant in a Spanish 1 class, I'm currently a high school senior. The problem is I feel like 1 or 2 of the students don't really respect me; its just little stuff like making (cont.)
fun of my name, señorita Gruber. I know im just 4 years older than the student, and im new to all this, but it just makes me feel bad. Although the boy is also really rude to my teacher, she probably knows how to handle it better. Any advice? Thanks!
talk to the teacher first and foremost. being a teaching assistant in a class where you also go to high school is complicated. your teacher needs to be the one who shuts down this stuff and let it be known that you’re still someone to be respected.
one way to do this is to pull the student aside after class and have both you and your teacher talk to the student(s) about respect.
other than that, honestly it’s a hard one… another way is to try to ignore it and not give them the reaction they’re looking for. it takes a lot to not react, especially if they then keep pushing your buttons just to get you to react. another way is to give them over attention, but in an academic way. sit with them, and make them focus on their work. i find this drives students crazy, especially the ones who want to annoy you. i’m like, if you want my attention then fine you’re getting it. sitting with them and trying to make them do their work is not the attention tehy want but it also sometimes gets them to stop then annoying you.