Honey dear all the fucking hugs to you!! I just finished reading your post and WTF?? I was ready to hop on a plane and go slap a bitch! You also made me realize that I was friends with someone similar (I had my suspicions for a while and thank all the Gods I "fell out" of friendship with that person). Please DO NOT think that your writing is not good, because that's BULLSHIT!! I'd love to write as good as you do! Again, all the hugs from Italy (and tiramisù too)
Thanks, bb! Luckily, I’ve had time, perspective, good friends, and @the-life-of-bucky-barnes to prove to me that I’m not a shitty writer, so there’s that.
And I’m glad you can see the signs. I mean, aside from finally feeling like people need to be made aware of her behavior, I also really want people to see signs in their own friendships because we realy DON’T think abuse when it comes to friends. If I can get one person to go OH SHIT I HAVE A FRIEND LIKE THAT, I BETTER FUCKING BOUNCE, then my work here is fucking done.
(PS: You’re gonna need to get in line behind @brendaonao3. She’s been wanting to slap the shit out of Kara for years. But considering Brenda got the brunt of my friendship/writer-friends paranoia, and le shedding of le baggage, it’s kind of undertandable.)