Hey about the exchange match-up if you’re intrested then may I from my side request only female?
Fandom/s: The Arrow, MCU
Pronouns: he/they
Sexuality: Trans (ftm)
Attracted: Only to girls
Zodiac: Cancer
MBTI: INFP
Appearance:
Short brown hair, dark brown eyes, kinda mascular but not much, usually wearing hoodies, never dresses or skirts
Personality:
Very sarcastic, can be rude, polite, stubborn, caring, protective, can and will throw hands if anyone hurts someone I care for, not lazy but not really active, patient, funny
Likes: Material arts, reading, cuddles 100%, hanging out with friends, physical touch in general, rain, music
Dislikes: Homofobia, rasism, bullies, injustice, pick-me people
Hobbies: Krav Maga (military material art), archery, writing, reading
Bad things: Lack of focus, bad memories and orientation
(Just female characters please)
your arrow match is…
𝓶𝓲𝓪 𝓼𝓶𝓸𝓪𝓴
lowkey likes your sarcasm
will be sarcastic back to you
you like martial arts/fighting? and archery??? congratulations, you now have a mia smoak attracted to you
is also very stubborn which can create some tension between the two of you
probably didn’t like you at first but got used to you
very protective over you, doesn’t want you getting hurt because of her being blackstar
its hard for her to show interest in people because she’s so closed off but she tries for you
you like music? she wants to listen to what you like (no guarantees she’ll like it though)
you write? she wants to see
you like cuddles? she’s not huge on physical touch, but she’ll cuddle with you, for you, and only you.
also likes rain, unless she’s out in it, which tends to happen a lot
rainy day cuddles??? yes please
she doesn’t always have time to read because of her superhero duties, but if you recommend her a book she will do her best to make time
steals your hoodies
could care less that you’re trans
loves you as you are <3
makes sure to use your preferred pronouns
if someone bullies you about your gender (or really anything) they will more than likely end up beaten up in an empty alleyway
your mcu match is…
𝓶𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓮 𝓳𝓸𝓷𝓮𝓼
definitely probably attracted to your sarcasm
like mia, will be sarcastic back to you lmao
thinks it’s kinda badass that you know martial arts and archery
probably has you teach her some archery
was neutral abt you when you first met
you were annoying but cool at the same time
you like reading??? congrats, she likes you 50% more now
eventually started feeling this fluttery thing in her stomach
didn’t realize it was a crush until she talked to ned and peter abt it lmfao
isnt huge on physical touch but is probably also touchstarved
she will cuddle w/ you though, just give her a bit to get used to it
lowkey loves reading while cuddling you on a rainy day
three of her favorite things <3 (reading, cuddling w/ you, rainy days)
might put some quiet music on in the background too
DEFINITELY STEALS YOUR HOODIES
will be slightly embarrassed if you bring it up but doesn’t show it
actively denies that it’s yours
which, to be fair, it isn’t yours anymore
oh your trans? cool
like mia, could care less, loves you for you
if someone’s a bitch to you abt being trans/anything else she will roast them to hell
by the time she’s done with them their self-esteem will be absolutely shattered
yay, exchange matchup! this is my first time doing a matchup (and writing for these characters), constructive criticism is appreciated, just don’t be a jerk abt it, hope i did you (and these characters) justice! <33
hello! thank you for participating in this exchange matchup <3
HAIKYUU
ROMANTIC MATCHUP: Miya Osamu
HOW YOU MET
My immediate association with Osamu to the coffee shop au needs to stop but it's what fuels my soul. Anyway he worked at the coffee shop you usually go to and he just started reconising you when you as you came in often with friends and stuff.
He thought you were so cool but he wan't gonna say anything to you because the only conversations you've ever had are about your order and maybe a compliment slid in there because people are nice and friendly sometimes.
Shout-out to his co-worker friend who knew for a fact Osamu liked you and made it obvious as shit. Like yk the eye people give their friends when they're talking to their crush, deadass that.
But once you came in right when he was on break and somehow ended up talking and just became friends from there, so boo-yah!
RELATIONSHIP HEADCANONS
I stongly believe he's a physically affectionate guy who hates pda because it makes him feel like a hypocrite for complaining about couples. When in more private areas, cuddles, kisses and hand holding galore; but in public you'll probably only get a quick peck on the check and a finger interlocked.
REALLY good listener and I'll die on this hill. Him hearing his loved ones rant about the things they enjoy or just about their day or literally anything is so comforting to him. Sit him down with a cup of tea and over an hour to spare, he's hands down here to listen.
He would make playlists of songs that remind him of you and send them to you <3 I think music would be ever present in your relationship, as you both have similar aesthetics+music tastes. But yall just being together and having music in the bg :]
HANGING OUT
yall watching horror and laughing at it>>>> Osamu is a big horror fan I think, like he would have had so many dvds and video tapes of horror movies from when he was a kid. OK but you guys on Halloween??? It's the best time for horror when all of the Halloween decorations are around and new horror movies are being released.
No particular reason for this one but you guys playing competitive games(video and board). Like he will bat you down in Super Smash Bros but plays cluedo really calmly. Forbid Atsumu to ever play with ya'll because he gets so pissed at how good Osamu's poker face can be in games.
Cooking, yes cooking. I'm pretty sure he opens an onigiri shop post time-skip? But he grew up as the cook between him and his brother, I just think he has a couple cookbooks to share. You don't even have to cook with him just be their with him please he enjoys your presence sm :]
THE OWL HOUSE
ROMANTIC MATCHUP: Willow
HOW YOU MET
Through Gus, somehow. Idk I feel like Gus gravitated towards your vibes, claimed you as his friend and then pulled you into a trio of you, him and Willow. Short king shit fr.
Ok it wasn't that fast in fairness. But you had a project with Gus and you both became friends from there, so he wanted to introduce you to Willow, and you both just clicked.
rip to Gus seeing yall develope and then having to third wheel until Luz came in. Honestly though he's the N.1 hypeman for your relationship, and he encouraged Willow to ask you out first because he was getting tired of the pining. Gus is the root of this relationship fr/j
But Willow was very friendly to you from the start and was a very empathic person, so it was hard not to enjoy ehr company and it wasn't unlikely to form any kind of crush on her.
RELATIONSHIP HEADCANONS
hI think she orignially got into anime and manga because of Luz, who knows a lil bit about them. When she found out you were into them she made a bee line towards Luz to ask where to start so that she could understand what you were talking about when you talked about the mangas and animes you're currently into.
Also isn't a big fan of big social events, so she understands your anxiety. I guess because she seems so level-headed she would be a comforting presence to have, and she kind of makes you feel like in this big place you're in your own comforting bubble. It doesn't help make the anxiety go away entirely, but she has her ways of helping you enjoy them a little more.
Her communication>>> Obviously she's not perfect at it, but she tries so hard to communicate because she doesn't wanna mess things up with you. I feel like it's important to her that you can both have your disagreements and still come out ok!
HANGING OUT
star/cloud watchers!!! No idea what my obbsession with picnics has been about recently but yall having picnics and watching the clouds <3 Like you have a special spot and everything where you just talk and look at the clouds and everything is so nice. Think Ellie and Carl in the Up intro but without the death. I think you'd both be very cute and would have a nice time!
Gardening core. Since she is like a prodigy in plant magic, she knows her stuff about plants and growing them. I think she would share some cool facts with you and would enjoy taking you to Hexides greenhouse to show you the plants the class is growing :] You can also find some cool bugs in there!! Plants and bugs in a garden what will they do. Anyway plant related things with Willow!
House dates... house dates. I think she would invite you over to her house often, where you can do art or watch movies in the comfort of a familiar place. Her dads adore you btw, and they have nice snacks in the fridge all of the time. Anyway Willow's home 10/10 so nice and comfy.
tdwwfjde thank you so much for your patience ! i appreciate you waiting so long for this ! hope you like it and it was worth the wait. i quite enjoyed writing this one tbh! anyway, please have a lovely day ! (ᵕ ᵕ⁎)
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— 【❈】 ‣ i match you up with … 𝐃𝐀𝐈𝐂𝐇𝐈 𝐒𝐀𝐖𝐀𝐌𝐔𝐑𝐀 !!
daichi and you? a superior match because it literally feels like mom + dad pairing!! you both exude this selfless aspect of looking after others- plus, i feel there would be enough similarities and differences in both of your personalities that it strikes a balance! and balance is key in a relationship.
much like you, daichi is regarded as a “voice of reason” or “conscience”-- it doesn’t matter if he assumes that role as a volleyball captain or just to his friends. . . when he talks, people listen. he has that kind of formidable charisma that people are attracted to and follow. yet, he can’t help but notice that aspect is a parallel to you?
he definitely makes it a point to notice the small things . . . so, when daichi witnesses you, who is typically sarcastic and quiet, bringing your friends down to earth with sound judgment and a calm disposition, this boy gets literal heart eyes. like a girl who’s this caring & loyal?? how could he not?
in addition, i can definitely see daichi swooning over a girl who simply has a good head on her shoulder; you definitely embody the type to have herself put together, have strong ambitions (like you’re going to be a surgeon? wow, he’s beyond impressed) & overall doesn’t take shit from others. rarely does daichi see you stressed or anxious, but he of course would be first one to reach out and be there for you if the opportunity ever presents itself.
like, this man is prepared--- he’ll be ready with your favorite comfort food & favorite games (fire emblem, rune factory, etc) to de-stress because he knows how instrumental breaks are. he’s also surprisingly not that bad at video games too?? after all, he learns from the best. c;
daichi definitely would strive to earn your trust and become friends first and foremost. and with that, he would quickly catch onto the fact you’re the overthinking type. i feel like it doesn’t have to be words for him to comfort you?? like, when he’s close enough to you, he would make it a habit to stop your train of poisonous thoughts by pulling you close, and urging to rest your head & just refresh- and if you’re ready, he’s always willing to hear what’s going on in your head, and he wouldn’t hesitate to strike down anything he deems isn’t the reality to give you a peace of mind.
i definitely see you two having a kind of slow-burn relationship in the sense that it might take awhile to have that committed relationship. but once you do, it’s set in stone- the kind of relationship where you two can see yourselves marrying--
even if you guys have conflict and fights, there’s still a high level of maturity and shared desire for resolution. perhaps you two can be equally stubborn, but like, it would never reach the point of mindless screaming as a way to expel anger. yeah, daichi can have a “scary” side, but with you, he’s never going off the rails and strives to keep himself in check no matter what. honestly, i can see you two sitting down and talking it out like the responsible people you are--- very healthy; 10/10 would recommend!
daichi probably is more of an optimist as a contrast to your pessimist-- and when you have the tendency to see things as half-empty, he won’t try to overrule your thoughts with blind optimism, but rather bring a different perspective to whatever situation at hand. i feel like he’s a realist leaning toward the air of positivity, so he’s not the type to be negative most times. and he will try to uplift your perspective with a meaningful pep talk especially if you’re particularly pessimistic if it comes to yourself.
he won’t take any negative self-talk from you that’s all i gotta say.
also random headcanon but your meme arsenal is actually so lovable in daichi’s eyes. he’s not that great with technology to the extent he makes his own, but he surprises you with sending aptly-timed memes back at you. and it’s honestly a cute way of you two showing your affections??
you two definitely travel once you both save up enough. especially in the timeskip, daichi would work tirelessly, picking up extra shifts as a policeman, to accommodate a trip. he knows he doesn’t make a ton of money, however, he will work his butt off to get a good flow of income to make fun vacations a reality. there’s no denying that daichi surprises you with tickets to wherever you had mentioned you wanted to go, and definitely cracks a smile at your surprised face.
oh my gosh-- he’s the definitely the type your friends & family would approve. it’s evident he just treasures you so much and wants to make you happy aw..
but, when you meet daichi’s friends?? he gets so confused why you’re mute, until it clicks that perhaps you’re not at ease around strangers. he tries his best to steer the conversation to where you can relax in front of his friends (after all they are a bunch of volleyball-playing goofballs), and if you need space, he definitely lets his friends know that you’re simply reserved around strangers. . . so be nice!
but you needn’t fret, you definitely warm up to the guys soon enough!
also, your dates are really goals! since you’re not down for amusement parks or sports-related events, daichi will probably take you to a nice restaurant where you guys can dress up for each other! he can’t help but swoon for you in nice clothing, but don’t worry. . . he still swoons even if you’re in your pajamas/comfy clothing. like, a night in is also a good date especially if you two get busy, and don’t have time to go out. he’ll be quick to order the food and find a good movie ( of course not a romantic movie as it’s not in your taste ). but, honestly, sometimes it ends up with you two gushing over cute animal videos and the movie is forgotten in the background.
his presents to you always come from him thinking hard about what you truly like. so, it tends to be manga (that he remembered you wanting to read!) or art supplies (because he adores looking at your drawings) or perhaps even comfy socks that he thinks you will love. the fact you don’t like jewelry is actually kind of nice for daichi because he doesn’t have to fret over what sort of jewelry you would like! ofc he will still fret over finding cute gift baskets that may make your day- they’re probably themed with your favorite color (orange or indigo)!
daichi is lucky that you are such a good cook! like he’s not too shabby, but he’s amazed by your cooking & so, he will always offer to help, whether it be the simple, busy-work jobs (like cutting the produce) or not. it honestly doesn’t matter what you cook, daichi will always eat it because you make it that tasty & with love. he almost always gets seconds too-
he sometimes catches you off guard by wrapping his arms around your waist when you’re cooking and whispers cute things into your ear like “i missed you”- sduijfsh he’s just boyfriend material.
overall, daichi and you have a truly wholesome relationship to the extent the team would even jokingly think of you as a mother figure (sugawara who?). again, there’s enough similarities and differences that keep the relationship alive and you two have this uncanny ability to keep each other happy through it all.
thank you so much for waiting !! and, thank you for bearing with me. i really hope you like this in spite of such a long wait (over a month oof--) ! ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ
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— 【❈】 ‣ i match you up with … 𝐌𝐈𝐘𝐀 𝐀𝐓𝐒𝐔𝐌𝐔 !!
you and atsumu would make such a powerful pair that i can’t think of matching you up with anyone else. first and foremost, i can imagine you two not getting along splendidly (*cough* frenemies to lovers trope *cough*), but as time goes on, you two will realize you harbor romantic feelings for each other !! and it’s actually goals--
it kind of goes like this: you don’t necessarily like how atsumu . . . has an arrogant streak. you can tell he knows he’s hot shit. he has this habit of calling things as he sees it, which is both admirable and kind of rude. he holds himself and others to a high standard. he sometimes fails to look at the way he treats others. even if he does see it, he doesn’t care enough to change himself.
whereas. . . you’re a bit of a foil to him. you’re kinder in your approach. given you’re naturally smart & you feel obligated to help others no matter how busy you are, you are so selfless! as opposed to atsumu, you recognize your flaws with social interactions! you try to fix it by sympathizing with and helping others even if it’s not natural to you.
with that note-- atsumu ends up realizing this about you & he think it’s pretty endearing. although he would be fairly annoyed that people may take advantage of you since you have a problem saying “no” to others. he’ll surprise you by seriously letting you know he has no problem letting down people for you if you ever need it.
it’s the small things that will shift your view on atsumu, and in turn, push you guys closer--
essentially, you may not like him especially at first. but ! i feel like you would see some of yourself in him, and you have more similarities than you both stubbornly refuse to admit. one being the fact you two hold such high expectations for yourselves, and you aren’t satisfied with the bare minimum. arguably, you both have this quality where if you’re passionate about something, you two will obsess over it and work at it.
i can see you guys often bumping into each other because you two are always working. you can’t avoid each other lol. with atsumu working on his volleyball skills on the court, and you working on crossfit in the gym, you see each other in passing ALL THE TIME.
when you two become close enough. . . in passing, you will playfully jab at each other about your respective work. to the onlookers, it’s definitely flirting, but to you guys, it’s not just that because your words definitely have an impact on each other. whether you intended this or not, you two push each other to be better with your teasing and sometimes brutal words.
for example, to the handsome setter, you might say something like “your serve’s looking weak there; you sure you’re putting in enough work ?” and that kind of riles atsumu up. he’d want to do better because his game depends on it, but also a large part of him (ahem, his ego) would want to prove you wrong. besides . . . is he a bit attracted with that someone who has the audacity to say such things to him? oh, that’s an easy yes.
on a different note, you never have to worry about filtering your words or saying something to appease atsumu. in fact, the setter would always want you to be “unapologetically yourself”, and he’d never want you to change for the supposed norm. i feel like he had a pretty apathetic view when it came to girls before meeting you (that squealin’ pig scene comes to mind dfiosjls).
he didn’t really seem to have an interest in relationships since he’s so dialed in on volleyball. however, in terms of what he generally looks for in a girlfriend, osamu remarks atsumu’s whipped for someone who has enough confidence to deal with his blunt, crude ways & not take everything he says so sensitively.
after a moment or two . . . atsumu will realize that’s literally you. catch osamu being like obviously
the two of you would be perfect because you stand your ground & call him out for his bullcrap. you just have this effect on him where you basically ground him & keep him more structured if that makes sense. in any case, you’re not so delicate and insecure that atsumu has to walk on ice for you. and vice versa.
also- atsumu loses it when you use your sarcastic humor & sharp wit against him. he absolutely lives for the banter you have. honestly, there’s so much tension whenever you guys are together that people just want you to kiss already. and you guys will. . . but in due time ~
it’s a bit of slow burn because it takes you both awhile to come to terms to the fact you like each other so much. . . even though you probably exchange more harsh comments than kind ones. after all, there’s a thin line between love and hate. yet, you two both get the unspoken message in spite of those words. but yeah, grappling with these feelings is hard. . .
when you guys finally exchange numbers (because you’re not just enemies now but perhaps friends-), atsumu surprisingly gets most of your memes you send him?? like, , , it’s kind of weird how he’s on the same wavelength as you, and you’re just like how does he know all these references??
by the way, your taste in music ? immaculate.
atsumu will definitely get into 70s music because that’s all you force let him to listen to when you’re hanging out. i can imagine that once you two become a thing, you’ll definitely have impromptu singing where atsumu is singing horridly (maybe on purpose to get on your nerves) and you’re trying to offset it. tbh, david bowie would cringe at atsumu’s poor rendition.
your hobbies of studying theoretical fields & absurd theories about reality may go over atsumu’s head at times, but he finds this side of yours rlly intriguing. he’s the "smarter” twin, so he’ll try to show off what knowledge he does possess in order to capture your affections. study dates are basically you two trying to roast each other & flirt more so than studying ahah.
generally speaking, you two tend to match each other’s energy, and i feel like it wouldn’t take too, too long for you to open up to atsumu and him for you. at least for friendship wise. there was initial dislike, but you two just mesh so well that the dislike kind of becomes a thing of the past.. like you two will find that you’re laughing and giggling in each other’s presence instead of just going at each other’s throats— you two can show your silly & goofy sides and i’m all here for that. just, the development!
and yes, it may take awhile for atsumu to accept his feelings for you, but once he does, he’ll make it clear what his intentions are. he’ll actually be a little weird at first because he’ll try to do something thoughtful or kind, like killing a spider instead of laughing at your horror like he normally does. and it’s unsettling to you.
anyway ! i feel like he’d just out of nowhere confess to you & you’re just left with a shook face because he likes you?? given your history with crushes, you weren’t expecting for atsumu to take that sort of interest in you but now you’re left with him awaiting your answer. . .
you say yes eventually- but atsumu definitely teases you for your mental lapse. but really his heart is doing somersaults and he’s over the moon-
honestly you two are like that athletic couple?? you doing crossfit and also swimming & atsumu doing volleyball? you two just look perfect together.
but also, power to you guys for working hard & chasing your dreams-- it’s so inspiring. atsumu will 100% support all your dreams & endeavors even if they seem all over the place. like if you want to go into biomedical engineering, yes, atsumu will be there for a caffeine run if you need some for studying. or perhaps even astrophysics? atsumu will do his best to support you with whatever it may be-- even with his own busy schedule. his actions tend to show his love than his words.
to conclude, atsumu and you would make such a great match. because there would be obvious attraction but also that relentless, aggressive support. there’s some stark differences in your personalities, yes, but there’s also enough similarities to keep you two compatible as well. i see your relationship as a crackling fire because i get “eternal flame” vibes from you two. like your relationship will stay alive in spite of fights or arguments, and the passion to relay your love for each other will remain through and through.
thank you for requesting the first starburst matchup/exchange! i had a lot of fun with this ahh! you’re such a sweetheart, and i really hope you like your matchup !! (´｡• ᵕ •｡`)
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— 【❈】 ‣ i match you up with . . . 𝐍𝐈𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐎𝐘𝐀 𝐘𝐔𝐔 !!
when i read your description, i definitely got the vibes you need a match who will have relentless determination to support you & bring you out of your shell whenever you’re with him. a kind of partner who will accept you with all your strengths & weaknesses. . . and will never hesitate to draw you in while saying you’re perfect when you feel especially low--
and thus, this leads me to talk about the best hype-man & number one sweetheart: nishinoya yuu.
from a mbti standpoint, an infj x esfp may seem like they don’t have much in common . . . they have enough differences that almost make them polar opposites. but hear me out: this difference, in terms of your relationship with nishinoya, works out splendidly.
like any relationship, nothing ever is perfect, but yours comes pretty close. nishinoya complements your traits with his own and vice versa. if i’m being honest, the notion opposites attract is real here. to your anxious and insecure nature, nishinoya will bestow confidence and a sense of calm (somehow, his energetic tendencies will do the trick)!
if you’re ever feeling down because someone is taking advantage of your kindness, you better believe your guardian deity that is nishinoya yuu will always be there to tell a person off & stand up for you no matter what. if you struggle to say no . . . much like a guard dog, he’ll intervene and inspire you to stand by your convictions, too.
additionally, nishinoya is a great match because his infectious positive energy & live-in-the-moment kind of ways will influence you greatly- you tend to feel things deeply & then get caught up in your own thoughts and self-criticisms. however, nishinoya will give a peace of mind by allowing you to get out of your head & enjoy life to the fullest. he’ll make you remember again the feeling of child-like curiosity & wonderment.
moreover, he’ll draw out your playful side for sure-- and he loses it whenever you have a perfectly-timed joke or punch-line. he visibly brightens up whenever you laugh and smile that it then becomes his life-long mission to maintain your high level of happiness.
the libero is ready to bring a spontaneous and fun component to your relationship at any time, such as fun date ideas that perhaps you never thought of before. but, at the same time, he’ll be sensitive to your needs and wants. yes, he enjoys adventure & fun, but as your relationship progresses, you notice he can also be chill and decently calm when needed. there will end up being a balance of fun outings & stay-at-home sort of dates (ie: a movie at home with takeout or video game night). it doesn’t matter what you guys do because it’s the company that truly matters to you.
for instance: stargazing? oh yes-- he’ll be sure to open the blinds ! cuddling? he’ll make a personalized music playlist to match the mood & don’t think he forgot about the candles because he knows that’s an integral, soothing aspect of the date. although you may have to tell him which candle scent is best to light. just about anything works with nishinoya, and he’ll be happy being with you.
of course, if you guys are playing video games, nishinoya will try his ultimate best to impress you by either beating you or the boss stage . . . unfortunately, him doing that doesn’t happen as often as he’d like. and you end up teasing him & laughing at his sorry attempts. as you probably would guess, he’ll pout saying you’re being "mean”, and that his happiness meter will only be restored if you give him a kiss. . . well, you may have to indulge him there.
also-- i must add, nishinoya is a total hug monster & he’ll definitely be down to staying in and cuddling, too!! he’s not as serious about academics, but you find out that if you cuddle him & then talk or read about certain topics that were discussed in class. . . he actually retains the information better because it’s you . . . and he’ll always be seriously attentive & listen up. plus, study dates are such a time because if you implement this reward system, it keeps him motivated (ie: snacks or a kiss for correct answers).
also ! nishinoya get so fired up about supporting you that you may be taken aback at how he gets into the things you are into— even the witch themed things & fantasy stories. he’ll support your hobbies— like, he’ll have to be quiet when you’re shooting an arrow, but after, he’ll root for you so loud!
if you support him at his volleyball games? oh, he’ll be so smitten & would definitely want to make it worthwhile. he’ll positively bounce over to you after his games & chat quickly about if you indeed saw what he did here and there!
anyway. . . nishinoya does try to sweep you off your feet-- for instance, he actually has an eye for cute, small gifts to brighten up your day. that stuffed animal you’ve been eyeing at a certain game booth? you blink, and the next thing you know nishinoya is proudly holding it out to you because he’s stubborn when he wants to win (not just the plushy but your affections).
for all his goofs and his attempts to keep you happy, you bring something so very important as well to keep him secure & happy. a sense of grounding. if nishinoya could, he could go on so many exploits & pull you along to exact the fun things in life, but you do a good job of keeping him aware of the realities of life.
you help shift his perspective to valuing the lasting connection with people rather than solely the fun moments.
he also treasures how you have a good head on your shoulder-- you don’t dive into things; you’re a little more cautious & use your head to think things through. you have a better impulse control than him suffice to say. and, you essentially help him understand things that he doesn’t care to think through about.
plus, he thinks your very personality is beautiful. beyond your pretty looks, you care about others & doing well in life. he finds it admirable that even if you have insecurity, you still find a way to do it all with evidence of success in school & co-curriculars. and that’s why he’s not only your #1 boyfriend but also fan (kiyoko is eternally gratefulf for this lol).
on the other hand, the main conflict i can see you guys having is the fact you two are so different, which is ironic because that’s also the reason why you two are at your most harmonious.
to elaborate, there will be times when you’ll butt heads about what to do and big decisions because you two are very different-- those are the times when things you normally can work through easily, taking account of both of your perspectives, just doesn’t work for this one problem.
and it can be tough to see eye-to-eye and have things run smoothly. but at the end of day, even if you two argue, there will be always resolution . . . you two just can’t stay at odds- the conflict can be intense in the moment, but nishinoya tends to get over things fairly quick & he’s not too prideful to say sorry.
makeup hugs & kisses are a must as nishinoya definitely thrives on the love languages of quality time & physical touch. it’s his way of showing his love & appreciation!
overall, your relationship is just. . . goals. when you’re together, you two learn a lot about each other but also yourselves. furthermore, there’s always a shared thought you can be yourselves no matter what & you’ll accept each other through and through.
cis female, she/her, 21 y/o - hetero - 3rd year bachelor of nursing student
positive traits: empathetic, likes to encourage others, focused & ambitious
neutral traits: wry sense of humour
negative traits: short temper, “I always think I’m right” stance
likes: tea, flowers, going to try new restaurants & cuisine
dislikes: wind + cold weather, loud noises/people/places, people who lack ambition or settle for mediocrity, arrogance
love languages: gives in acts of service and gifts; prefers to receive physical touch and acts of service
trivia:
ISFP
currently working in an emergency department; career goal is to be a scrub nurse
12 piercings, 13 tattoos
prefers the beach but has also summited 7 mountains
extremeeeeeeeely bad RBF
fluent in english, vietnamese, studying french
Your matchup is...
Satori Tendou
-First of all, he is a pastry chef, so I can see a lot of dates in his beautiful bakery where he gives you his best pastries and the best tea match.
-Satori is an ambitious guy without being extremely arrogant, he is just sure of himself! At times this side of his personality comes in handy.
-You may butt-head at times since you both often think to be right, but I think Satori knows how to water down the situation if it gets too "violent"
-I also think that you have similar humor, so you'll often end up laughing at each other without any of you being offended.
-Satori finds piercing cool, but tattoos are waaay cooler in his opinion. He doesn't have the courage to get one, but for sure he'll admire yours!
-Your "RBF" won't scare him off, his best friend is Ushijima whose face is pretty intimidating, nothing scares Satori off anymore.
-Finally, someone that is empathetic! All his friends are so cold when it comes to emotions, so having an empathetic partner it's a relief.
-Satori is affectionate with people he warmed up to, so I believe he would often kiss and hug you without any problem even in public.
-I assume you both have to wake up really early in the morning, but Satori often wakes up earlier just to prepare breakfast for you.
-He'll gladly help you with French! He may not speak it as if it is his mother language, but thanks to his work he ends up knowing a lot, or better, enough to help you.
