I recently had my abuser—whom I cut out of my life a year and a half ago—attempt to contact me again. Despite changing my name on everything, she found my account and messaged me on Pinterest, a platform I’ve never used to speak with her before. She tried to pass it off as an accident, but given our history, it was clearly an attempt to push boundaries.
When I was 17 and she was 21, She engaged in controlling and manipulative behavior that led to me cutting contact. I made it clear I did not want her in my life as a result. Now, she’s twisting the situation to make herself the victim. If you’ve seen her post on here about me (she goes by Yennao.), you can clearly see I am telling her to leave me alone—because this is not the first time I’ve had to say it. If she tries to delete anything, it’s already archived on the Wayback Machine.
She has a substantial following on TikTok, and her attempt to hoover me back into her life happened right after she lost that following due to the temporary TikTok ban. This wasn’t a coincidence—it was an attempt to make me her emotional punching bag again.
She thrives on isolating people and making them feel unreasonable. If you’ve seen this and have also been a victim of her abuse, know that you are not alone. You’re not crazy, and your story matters.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. ♥️
