so my first playthrough of Origins I was juggling romances with Leliana and Zevran plus a surprise "this might as well happen" ninjamance with Alistair because, you know, you've got to sample a bit of everything at the buffet right? Morrigan was out bc I was playing without mods at the time EXCEPT that I happened to on the same night at camp trigger all of their romances to attempt to progress to intimate all at the same time. so I was like. well. okay then just this once. & scurried off to the BSN to install this polyamory mod which is actually. was REALLY good and added a lot of seamless dialogue (albeit it's not even a little bit compatible with many other important mods, not that it mattered to me at the time) but it DOES. force you negotiate your relationship WITH each character you're attempting to romance about each and every OTHER character you're attempting to romance, separately, before they will agree that it is all on the level and they are okay with it. so I must have run back and forth across the camp at least like 9-12 times that night before I got all of those kisscams unlocked.
