FEATURE: For the third post in Fairness WV's "Summer of Love" series on LGBT love stories, meet Fran Whiteman and her wife Mona Melton Zimble, a loving couple in Morgantown, WV.
Fran and Mona first met online! They both had indicated that, at their ages, they were only looking for a forever partner, wife and best friend.
Mona was intrigued with Fran’s crying every time she heard the National Anthem and Country Roads being sung after a WVU win by a full stadium of Mountaineers. Fran was impressed by Mona’s discussion of the proper use of the gerund and her beautiful descriptions of places that she had visited in the US and Canada. They emailed each other for several weeks and learned about each other’s love of travel, cooking, family, and great music.
Their romance was solidified when they exchanged their favorite poems: Fran sent Sonnet 17 by Pablo Neruda and Mona sent Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s Sonnet 14. Fran suggested a meeting over lunch, which would mean a three-hour drive for each of them.
After the first meeting, they knew that they were soulmates, compatible in every way, and that they were in love. Fran and Mona had planned to get married on June 8, 2014, but they were so moved by the the United States Supreme Court finding DOMA unconstitutional that they got married on Decision Day, June 26, 2013.
Fran Whiteman joined the Board of Fairness West Virginia in 2013 and is committed to spreading the word that equality and civil rights for all people in the LGBT community must be the law of the land. She uses her position as an attorney and in social media to widen acceptance and forward thinking. Mona is the proud wife who stands with Fran in this campaign to end second-class treatment and views of LGBT people. They both believe that there will be no change in Americans' attitudes until we all come out and be exactly who we are.
Fran and Mona’s hope for the future: Becoming equal in the eyes of the law and ending the discrimination that bullies all of us. They envision an end to when “LGBT” is a needless and useless acronym, when people will not judge us for who we are or who we love. They say law and love are not compatible.