When
When will we move on? When will it stop hurting? When does it get easier? When will I feel whole again? When will my family support me? When will things change for the better? Will it be too late? Or will it be at just the right moment? Moving on is always the hardest part in life. Whether it be from a job you really enjoy, a relationship you thought would last forever, a loved one who has passed, a still born baby or a car accident that took someone’s life. Some things in life are never able to be moved on from, however they do get a little bit easier to handle. That job you really enjoyed wasn’t the job that was meant for you. There will be one that shows up in the future where you never really WORK again. That relationship that you thought was going to last, wasn’t intended to last, but to teach you a lesson on something you may have been lacking. That loved one you lost, no matter the circumstances, it was their time. We fight and kick and scream when we lose them young, because it isn’t fair. They didn’t get to fulfill everything in their lives. They didn’t get to watch their baby grow up. They never got to marry the man or woman they fell in love with. They didn’t get to graduate college. They just didn’t get enough time. You’re absolutely right. They didn’t, but as unfair as it is for us, it was their time. The stillborn baby that passed, its the worst pain any mother and father could ever feel. No one ever deserves that. You grew that little life. This isn’t something you will ever FORGET, however it does get a little easier. Never right away. It takes YEARS, and everything will feel empty for awhile, but in time, WHEN it’s time, it will get easier. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing ever happens that wasn’t meant to happen. Some things never stop hurting. Some things families will never support. Sometimes that empty feeling never fully goes away. Change happens when you do something out of your comfort zone. Find something you want to change and go for it. I am rooting for you and your accomplishments. Things always seem to fall into place when we least expect it.
