#fanflicks

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post:i am here to serve as a person of proof that for...

i think they used to though with the old tumblr

ya maybe but they have not for the last 3 years and i have definitely seen those posts recently and newly made 

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post: fanflicks replied to your post: a kid ...

didnt emmett get up and high five him

yes emmett did get up and high five him and an awkward dinner party is a good description 

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post: a kid who ran for senior class preside...

WEIRD CUZ HE SHARES POLITICAL VIEWS WITH SAID WHITE TRASH SOUTHERN HICKS

and he justified it with "it's ok i can these things because i'm a republican" and like where does he think the majority of republicans come from but then thomp said "well being a republican you must know how it feels to not think" and that was that so 

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post “fanflicks replied to your post: how could you possibly not want kids...”

are totally different things. and its like shaming women who for whatever reason dont want to put their body through that and its their choice and their body and i dont think anyone can judge that.

yes labor can send a woman into shock or kill her but that's not what we are talking about we are talking about people specifically not having kids because of the pain (not the possible consequence of dying) yes true we don't know how many men would go through that but all of them should be willing to if they have kids and we have no way to proving it because we can't just switch who gives birth but since the woman have to go through that in order to biologically have children (without a surrogate or anything) since they have to go through that the pain should not keep them from having a child if hypothetically a man had to go through something painful before having a child i would think that shouldn't keep them from having the kid. Again we are not talking about risking lives we are only talking about the pain (just because that's the reason people give, pain i mean not death) so saying you don't want to have a kid just because you don't want to go through the pain seems like the foreshadowing of a bad parent because just the pain alone they should be willing to endure for their child. It is shaming because what kind of person would not go through that pain (with modern medicine the entire naval down is taken care of with the IV) because of the way nature is set up we can't judge this way with men because they don't give birth but i still expect the same. Like i expect it from both of them but only one proves it to the general public and that is dumb but idk what you would ever do about that what i do know is that when teenagers say they don't want to have kids because of the pain of labor they are proving they wouldn't take pain for their child (assuming everything else goes perfect just a normal healthy birth) and if a guy ever proved it as well (which never happens because what example would they use they have none) if somehow they proved they wouldnt endure pain for the kid i would think the same of them like it's unfortunate that women have this unfair proving they need to go through but it does prove nonetheless although i have never heard anyone over 20 say they dont want to give birth because of the pain but yes i do judge that i judge anyone who won't go through pain (pain without consequence just plain pain and the pain is they 1 and only doubt) to have a kid 

edit: also i read your first responses and fears don't count in this conversation because the fear is not physical pain like that's a different reason 

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post: how could you possibly not want kids j...

also its really gendered like by “any person” we of course mean “any woman” its expected that a woman should be willing to endure pain for her children this isnt expected of men.. but theyre by default worthy of parenthood?

no men should be able to endure severe pain too if they ever have too, i think it is expected of men most people expect men and women to die for their child (if it ever comes to that)

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post: and we are back to the office

what about catching up on parks and rec

i did 

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post:fanflicks replied to your post:has anyone actually...

i think u mean :D

D: because i have failed the skill of making mug food which sucks in taste but is the key to 4am food 

[padukone]

fanflicks replied to your post:has anyone actually made any of those “food in a...

ive made cookies and brownies but its always been mediocre cuz i never have chocolate chips but other then that its been fine. not as good as real cookies but swaggie in a fix

D: