anyways shoutout to lesbians who are looking for love/a girlfriend and might not feel adequate. i think a lot of the times we pressure ourselves more than the outside world because a part of us thinks that we’re faking it unless we date a girl and that isn’t true you are 100% lesbians regardless of if you’ve dated anyone. and also that we don’t have to make every relationships work out, sometimes if we do find a girlfriend it all falls apart and thats okay. lesbians don’t have to have perfect relationships, sometimes things don’t work out, sometimes you just lose interest and all of that is fine. but like we really don’t always have to have a girlfriend and be in a committed relationship thats going great. but we can be single, we can find girls unattractive, we don’t have to like every wlw girl that likes us, and esp. for lesbians of color: we don’t have to like white lesbians. lesbians of color have been hurt a lot too by white girls and white people and they don’t want to date/hook up/have any type of relationship with white people and like thats also okay too. and i really do hope any lesbians out there looking for love find the right person and live happily ever after but also i really want us as a community and individuals to stop pressuring ourselves so much.
note: trans lesbians are very much a part of this!!
