I just want to remind people that some otherkin/fictionkin circles exhibit cult-like behaviour.
I’m no expert on cults, but there have been some alarming things I’ve seen on this site and the Internet in general, and especially as kin circles tend to be full of young people looking to fit in, it is very rich for the picking for cults.
Here are some signs that I’ve seen that send alarm bells going off in my head:
* Asking for money, and this money being somehow linked to making you ‘progress through the ranks’ or ‘become a higher member of the group’ - i.e., paying to ascend
* Encouraging a feeling of 'we are the only ones who understand each other’, isolation, looking down on people outside the circle, discouraging you from making friends elsewhere or feeling like they are your only family - in particular can be common among otherkin who cultivate an 'anti-human’ mindset
* secretive knowledge only available to the 'inner circle’, always dangled in front of you so you feel you have to work to have it 'revealed’ to you
* worshipping/revering the leader of the group (more than just respect) - remember, they’re just a person like you
* this idea that there is another world in which these people are powerful/superior and a constant 'behind the scenes battle’ or 'exchange of power’ is taking place. Watch out for overdramatic titles being given to a select few or even self-imposed, e.g. 'the grand master X of the Y nobility’
* feeling like you can't leave, that you'll be hounded and mocked if you try to quit
* feeling like you're constantly under scrutiny, that you're constantly trying to prove that you're 'special enough' or 'dedicated enough' - trust your gut. If it feels wrong, that means something.
The people involved may not be aware of the cultlike behaviour they exhibit, they may not be doing it intentionally. It doesn't mean it's healthy for you.
If anyone else has any more to add, please do. These are just the ones I’ve seen.