late to the whole usfw hc thing but
something about arie is they used to get a bit dysphoric about their p*nis involving sexual things which is part of why they were so anti sex for a long time (among other 100 things). a lot of their first experiences were DO-NOT-TOUCH ❌✋⛔
eventually as they get older they get comfortable in their own skin in their very late 20s (more early 30s) and forward, those feelings do pass and they get to find pleasure in being touched in any and all ways. harsh ways most of all, controlled, consented (and DISCUSSED) pain, etc. they rarely if at all get dysphoric.
they will however never top anyone, it's not in them. they will almost always be a dom, they might switch to a sub if there's enough trust, (like A LOT of trust) but they just won't top, regardless of the body parts involved. they will just rather find other ways to have sex. meaning that dick isn't going inside anything to put it bluntly.
once that door is opened in a relationship tho they also go from sex indifferent to bursts of hypersexuality depending of how into someone they are. because once they are into someone they are INTO them, climbing all over them like a cryptid.
