This fandom is really impatient. I feel for you cupcakes, I really do. However, it sounds like there might not have been a set agreement that you were going to be the one to get Lolly for that person. I apologize in advance if there was. I once did an auction on Bell tree, giving away O'Hare's pic,and someone bidded the entire sloppy set. I would have appraised the value to be in the millions since I wanted it so badly but they were impatient and gave it to someone else before the auction ended,
If this is the case I can understand the other person's logic a bit, but if they both agreed that she was going to get Lolly and they'd trade then I will never agree with them treating her like she was wrong for being upset.
Even still I feel like she has a right to be upset.
