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I'm not Wiccan. I am not particularly tied to the "Wheel of the Year" when it comes to holiday traditions. And I'll be honest, I'm pretty sure I first got the idea for my Winter Solstice tradition from the Circle of Magic books by Tamora Pierce.
That doesn't mean it's not an awesome tradition, and meaningful to me.
See, the fertility cycles celebrated by Wiccans don't resonate with me, but I've always been fascinated by their cause. As a graphic I saw in the tag recently stated, "axial tilt is the reason for the season". The solstices and equinoxes have an astronomical meaning, and have since the earth was formed. The equinoxes are when day and night are equal. The solstices are the longest and shortest night of the year.
But what does this mean, to the casual observer?
It means that the Winter Solstice is the peak of the darkest time of year, where the sun seems distant and night lasts forever. Well, almost forever. It feels like forever. And what if the sun didn't come back at all? That would be the end of the world as we know it.
So...I keep fire, on the night of the Solstice, in hopes that the sun will return and days will grow longer again. I light a candle shortly before sundown, and keep it lit up until sunrise, staying awake to watch the night pass. It's a different sort of festival of lights from Hanukkah, from Christmas, but there's a core message that threads through a lot of the winter seasonal holidays--"even in the darkest of times, the light comes back. Keep what hope you can, because the brightness of better days is coming."
There is no specific deity I connect this observation with--though I do thank Prometheus for the gift of flame on lighting the candle.
Anyway, that's how I do 'yule'. As an aside, I have a habit of always celebrating it on December 21st, despite exact astronomical solstice times occasionally landing on the 22nd. The reason for this is kinda a purely selfish one. Inquire if curious.