For one of my education classes that I took a couple of semesters ago, we spent a lot of time talking about Cyberbullying. We watched numerous videos that interviewed kids that had been cyberbulied and it really opened my eyes to how big of an issue this is. Technology has changed in a lot of ways the way we interact with people. It is so easy to text, call, or whatever is convenient for you instead of directly interacting with that person. That is convenient, but also can be a problem when we are talking about this subject. Social media is HUGE in kids’ life. It is a measure of popularity and status. I volunteer as a mentor in town and work with high-schoolers and it is amazing to me how much they care about how many “likes” they get on a photo, or how many followers they have. So getting publicly dissed on a site can be the biggest blow to ones confidence. I definitely think you act differently online vs. offline. It is so much easier to sit in front of a computer screen and post what you are thinking/feeling than it is face to face with someone. That can be a good and a bad thing. You have a lot more time to think about what you want to say/ or what you are feeling when you are online, versus when you are face to face you can’t have awkward silence, you have to have a response immediately. I think in a way it is making it harder for people to interact socially face to face, because we don’t practice it as much.
I really enjoyed reading that second article. It was probably the best that I have read when talking about this subject. Social media is a reality now. I have a couple friends who don’t have a facebook, or an instagram, and honestly they miss out on a lot. There is this kind of disconnect unfortunately. There have been many times when I have wanted to delete my social media accounts, but honestly I love knowing what my friends are doing, and getting to see the pictures they post. I feel closer to them, and I feel like I know them on a deeper level, because I see who they are “online vs. offline. I think the difficult part is balancing the amount of time you spend online, which the article did a good job of explaining.