when i was in high school, probably 14 years old, i used to date but our relationship lasted about one year and six months. after we broke up, his friends always make fun of me :’( everytime i walked after his class, majority of his friends cat-called me and sometimes called me by his name just to tease me. i felt scared whenever i need to pass by his class because our classes are in a row. that was the worst time in my life. thank god, i never see him again after high school graduation.
it was hard for me to move on :’( and i never have been in any relationship since then. i only talked to my best friends and they also disliked my ex because he doesn’t do anything when his friends make fun of me. the worst thing is, he also joined them. i feel like i’m walking on a thin ice... after i went to college, i tried to open up my heart for other people and that’s when i met this one 👦. let’s say his name is H. i met him through my friend because they’re in the same group. we kind of become friends and before we get into relationship, he decided to break up with me... but boyyy we aren’t in a relationship,,,,, (he still in love with his ex and he just want to use me) yeah,, better have nothing than having a toxic relationship. i don’t even like him that much 🤷♀️
that’s my past relationship and now the real thing is:
i have a crush on this one boy in my course for about five semesters (2 years and a half). this is my final semester and i probably won’t see him again :’) thank god i’ve already took a picture with him last year 🥲 he used to have curious cat and i always send him a lot of encouragements but stay as anonymous. i make a first move to take picture with him. when he asked for my numbers, it’s only for sending pictures of that day. other than that, we never have anproper conversation. only “good luck” or “congrats”. but we interact when something important coming up ☺️
is it okay for me to confess to him? but i’m scared of getting reject... i know he likes someone else but it’s okay to try.... right? this is my first time liking someone else after my last relationship... 😔 what should i do.... 🥺
i am no love doctor or expert, but i think the best thing you can do is just be honest with him cause it can be the least you can do for the both of you. even if he may like someone else if you were to go ahead and tell him, i think telling him would be a good idea.
as someone who has been through a situation where someone found out from someone else that i liked them, it did not end up well and i had wished that i had told them myself so that i can kinda get that clarity for myself, despite being rejected anyways in the end.
yeah, it is going to hurt because rejection is not a fun thing to go through or endure in terms of how it effects the heart, but it can also give you the satisfaction of like, not regretting missing the chance to tell him your own thoughts. i think hearing it from you might be better than hearing it from someone else, if something of that situation may happen, and if you’re worried about possibly not finding someone after him, it'll be okay.
you’d be one step closer to finding someone else that will love you for you!! and that person will love you in the ways that you want to be love, and how you deserve to be loved as well. so don’t dwell too much on the idea of rejection, when maybe it might be a good thing that you rip the bandaid off and tell him.
there are lots of people, like me, who will be here to support you along the way and will give you the love that you deserve!!!
