Show down at pecker point!
I got called out last night by a gal who, in my opinion, was flirting with my bf at a recent event. The flirt was, in her opinion, not a flirt. I apologized for my misinterpreting her body language and vibe, and thanked her for her input ...... Wondering mostly about my error in telling my yoga friend, in confidence, about my "perception of the flirt" in the first place.... And she blabbed to another friend.... Who told the flirtee about my belief ..... Those three had been pre drinking prior to meeting me at the pub and had the flirtee worked into a frenzy, so when I got there she hit me with all barrels blasting (in my opinion the lady protested a bit too much)..... Awkward ...... I am allowed to feel whatever the fuck I want to feel! If someone tells you what you feel is wrong .... It ain't right! My error was sharing my feelings with anyone....... That's been my lifelong experience.... From being a kid on up.... It ain't safe to tell anyone how you feel if those feelings aren't positive....it always ends badly for me... Plus yoga chick is a cow for gossiping.