what's wrong with the fma fandom? :o
As many amazing people there are in it, there’s also a helluva lot of horribly toxic people. Over ten wonderful people left because of harassment just last year.
Look, I don’t fuckin care if you ship r/o/y/e/d or not, but don’t bully people because of it!! Some ships are problematic, yes, and they can be gross too. And you may justify it as “wanting to help those who were abused”, but harassment???? Helps nobody???
What you SHOULD do, is block them and never speak to them. That helps both parties. If you don’t have the same ships or views or ideas as someone else, then just. Don’t. Communicate. Stop fucking causing drama and making people hate themselves.
A good way to be an anti-shipper???? That one blog that lists users that ship the “problematic” ships. They don’t harass the shippers, they don’t tell others to harass them, they just list them in case people want to block them. THAT is a good way to be an anti. NOT CALLOUT POSTS, NOT BULLYING, JUST. BLOCK. THEM.
Also @ that specific blog I’m talking about, please if you must, put me on the list, too!! I don’t want to potentially trigger someone for something that I ship. I really don’t care about the follower count, I’m only on tumblr to reblog the things I like. No, I’m not a pedophile and no, I’m not in love with any of my family members, and no I’ve never abused anyone in a relationship. I’m also a minor.
All I want, for every fandom, is everyone to be happy. The people that like one thing go in one corner, the people that like another thing go in a different corner, etc. And then they just never communicate! And that’s okay! Surround yourself with people that you’re comfortable with.
But that’s probably never going to happen. Every fandom has its own toxic group. And /everyone/ is at least a little petty. That’s just how it is.
Don’t let my views change yours, think what you want to, but I’m just stating it how it is in my perspective. This is my blog, and I’m allowed to post my thoughts. Thank you for letting me rant about this, anon.