Aug 8
Okay the answer I got on an advice blog pissed me off and I want the opinions of people who actually know us. You'll probably know who I'm talking about, pretend you don't. I do have this headmate's permission to post this.
Theoretically, if one headmate in a system (we'll call them A) had a crush on someone (B) who was not attracted to people of A's gender and wanted to change their gender, pronouns and/or presentation to align more closely with the gender that B is attracted to in the hope that B would like them, would that be fucked up and weird?? or would that be fine?? I genuinely do not know if that's an okay thing to do or not. I feel like generally that would be bad but maybe for insys shit it's different?? idfk