doing something "selfish" is not inherently bad. you do not need to perform every single action in your life in a way that majoritively benefits others. at its core, morality and ethicality comes down to preventing harm. you SHOULD do your best in life to not cause harm. however, in a lot of cases, there isn't anything you can do that does not have a chance at upsetting somebody else. if you are miserable where you are and you can't move from that place without being selfish, then be selfish.














