The Narc Vs a Real Parent
I am beyond frustrated with the ex. His narcissistic tendencies are bleeding over into his lack of parental duties. He is consumed with dating sites and going out. Leaving our son behind or with me (no complaints there).
Our son suffered a hand injury last week. I spent a buttload of money on medications, bandages and an ER copay. The ex didn’t even bother to check on him. Then took the bag of supplies I had made up to send to his house (god knows he wouldn’t get up to get his own supplies.) He sent my son home after his visit with no medications, no backpack, none of the clothes I have purchased because he already took everything. I asked him to drop the items off in the morning. He text “okay”. That’s hopeful 😂
This afternoon I text him specific instructions for my sons big field trip of the year. Unfortunately it’s on “his” day. I gave him a rundown of items needed and told him our son needed to be at school early. I even offered to pack the required lunch if he’d just pick it up on the way to school. I got one of these 👍🏻.
His fuckery is getting old. He is the shitties parent I’ve ever seen. Disneyland dad if he actually went to Disneyland. But the worst of the worst? He moved in with his handicapped mother after I left. I told my friends that he would either kill her off or run her off so that he could take her house. I said it in half jest but that is the kind of person he is. Narcissist to the core. Well it happened. He informed me yesterday that the house is his now and that his mother is moving to another city (into a single wide trailer). This MF will destroy anyone in his path. Take and take and take. He regrets nothing because the world owes him. My grandpa always told me I was too pretty to hate and I lived by that. Until now. If he fell off a cliff I wouldn’t give two shits.
