#frostdrake

[tired-needs-sleep]

ignes isn't very good at cooking. she's not very picky, though. most of the time she'll just eat random minerals she gets her hands on, but if she can she'll eat someone else's cooking.

enter ailyn who i've been told loves cooking

you get it

[sleepdealer100]

May I peruse your good my dear boi¿¿?

I’ve only got the one good, and it’s sleep! Make me an offer. (c:

[zodixcs-blog]

@frost--drake had mentioned wanting a thread

“You must be one of Ife’s classmates.”

He tried to learn the students-- but it had become a near-impossibility throughout the years. Only a handful had managed to actually stick out for him, and Dai had learned to accept that would just have to be the way it was. That was okay, wasn’t it? Not everyone could learn about everyone, after all.

[acephobia-is-real]

Ok like could you explain spit attraction model for me? Like does it mean your "(attracted to gender(s)) and (ace and or aro)" Or is it something else

The split attraction model refers to your romantic orientation plus your sexual orientation, such as a biromantic ace.

[the-ace-of-weasels]

frostdrake replied to your post: “did I honestly see discoursers use the term “hetkeeper”… because… wow…...”:

It's kinda spelled like "hatekeeper"

I know. and I know how many discoursers piss and moan about people using “hatekeeper” too. and I know the only side focusing on hets is THEM. 

you’ve got this side saying things about how asexuals get crap because a lot of straight people see asexuality as something that isn’t compatible enough with heteronormativity to necessarily be seen as straight even if they’re romantically attracted to the “opposite” sex, about all the bullshit aces can deal with because of that, and how inclusion can benefit aces especially since "cishet” aces are a minority in the ace community. 

we’re not saying cishets belong in the community, we’re saying ACES belong in the community. we’re not saying “let’s just let all the straight cis people who think it’s cool being ‘queer’ into the community” in any way, shape, or form. so calling us “hetkeepers” makes no sense.

meanwhile, some of the people using the term “hatekeeper” for those on their side have faced actual harassment from their side, so while I personally don’t like using that I can’t blame some people for using that term for them. I’ve seen a lot of aggression from their side and experienced some of it myself. at least some of their side do really merit being called that.