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Tú puedes ser quien quieras ser, y nadie tiene derecho a juzgarte ni tocarte si tú no lo deseas. No significa NO. Y ni tu ropa ni tú se tienen la culpa de que alguien no tenga consideración por ti, por tu calidad de alma, por tu corazón y por su condición de mujer. Levanta ese rostro. La culpa no es tuya cuando existe abuso. Mereces respeto y amor, nada más. #MeToo #Fuckabusers #niunamás https://www.instagram.com/p/COiftK-l5tsHRsafEuVr5aOt-PCASBRVDrutvw0/?igshid=1fkmkzb9qiquk
Today, I woke up in a good mood because I had a dream about my last abuser... I hope I have your attention. I left him on April 4, 2012 and this is the first time that I had a dream about him where he was not stalking me and where I was not running away from him in fear. This time I noticed him at a casino and I was not running from him. When he noticed me, we sat down and talked. I have no recollection of what we talked about but I was no longer terrified of him. I talked to him and later walked away from him. I woke up in a good mood because I felt like I was finally released from his grip. As a survivor who struggles with the aftermath of abuse, I take this as a victory. I know that I am more powerful than he will ever be. I am using what he did, my father did and my first abuser did to me as fuel, fuel to empower other survivors and fuel to help others break their silence. I took this photo of myself while I was a victim of Domestic Violence I no longer have this pain in my eyes, I have HOPE #fuckabusers #iwin #iamalive #dvsurvivor #mystory #usingmypaintomakechange #fuckyouchris #free #phoenixrising https://www.instagram.com/p/CLiLTAGjRK-/?igshid=1vo9tast5epr1
Stretching, to hell with the Old ... sending Toxic people their way ! Bye now #fucktoxic #majorpsycopath #fuckabusers #fuckleaches #user #scumbag (at Beverly Hills, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx1JVxKAvBH/?igshid=otm9djrqa5i
Fucked Up dream
So... There was a fuck tonne of stages to this dream,
1. Kinda normal game plot bout me saving my daughter who’d been possessed, including respawns and a fucktonne of earth being folded over itself.
2. This is the weird bit, at my friend Nye’s house, for some kind of party, and we’re just chilling, got my phone out and stuff y’know.
Then his “Dad” shows up, I don’t know what he looks like but I got a picture in my head. He then starts beating up his “mum” again don’t know what she looks like.
This really pisses me off because fuck abusers, So i’m trying to go full superman mode, when Nye pins me and says “He’s not done” and starts holding me down. Which was ridiculously strong by the by.
I eventually wrassle him off of me but this took a lot of effort so I’m wiped. His dad just sits across from me. He just starts peppering me with questions and I just start getting into pissed off again. Nye’s not around this time. So I just go ahead and wail on him.
This does next to nothing as it’s a dream, I’ve never been in a fight so idk what I did but...
Scene fades I’m outside my Wrists tied to his and he’s approaching me, So I walk out onto a road cus I here a car coming. He’s following me willingly for some reason but as soon as the car nears the restraints come off and I book it. (After kicking him in the nads)
I start running around this neighbourhood, trying to lose all forms of visual connection to this man. Dodge duck and weave later.
Come across these two guys going to break into a house, me no have phone, me leave at Nye’s fuck. They start being like “oh no we’re just visiting.” etc.
I’m like “I don’t care I’m off” then they turn out to be the guys friends, and so start chasing me, I at this point apparently suffer from can’t run cus dream. and they catch me.
Then I was being held up by my collar in a bathroom stall by the “Dad”. So I just grab his head and just start throwing it against the nearest metal part of the stall.
3. Then I wake up in a battle royale of about 30 people, but it’s a fight against zombies. The people who die turn into Zombies. I however win, but I see all the Zombies celerbrating, as one falls on me and starts eating me. Then I wake up
TLDR; I would fuck up anyone who fucks with my friends or their family, or attempt to. Plus I fucking hate dreams.
I still have horrifying nightmares about my ex boyfriend and it is so disheartening. I can't promise that I'll keep my composure if I were to see him again. It scares me.
6/4/15 my life changed irrevocably. We demanded justice. In one small part of my life I took action. Everything in my life stems back to the moment when I said “wow this amazing gender studies professor spoke about the anonymity of trans zines and we need to do this now.” Happy pride month to all, especially to those who have been silenced in any way. Whether survivors, sex workers, people of color, undocumented, fat, trans or any number of types of queer people who have systemic injustices breaking them down. You are pillars of strength & vulnerability and I learn so much from you every day. It impacts my whole being, artist or otherwise. I so admire the people that collaborated to make these posters. I know Lawrence has been (slightly) changed for the better. I know we will continue to demand change for all students. #NoMercy #HangtheRapists #fuckAbusers #survivorsolidarity #Pride #queer #trans (at Appleton, Wisconsin)
6/4/15 my life changed irrevocably. We demanded justice. In one small part of my life I took action. Everything in my life stems back to the moment when I said “wow this amazing gender studies professor spoke about the anonymity of trans zines and we need to do this now.” Happy pride month to all, especially to those who have been silenced in any way. Whether survivors, sex workers, people of color, undocumented, fat, trans or any number of types of queer people who have systemic injustices breaking them down. You are pillars of strength & vulnerability and I learn so much from you every day. It impacts my whole being, artist or otherwise. I so admire the people that collaborated to make these posters. I know Lawrence has been (slightly) changed for the better. I know we will continue to demand change for all students. #NoMercy #HangtheRapists #fuckAbusers #survivorsolidarity #Pride #queer #trans (at Appleton, Wisconsin)
Destroy all rapists and abusers! I’m tired of blaming myself for the violence I’ve experienced! I’m tired of feeling worthless! I’m tired of feeling like I don’t deserve love! I’m angry that even years later the trauma of my experience of sexual & domestic violence ruin my intimate moments with my loved one! I’m tired of feeling like I’m never will be healed enough! I’m tired of the pressure of having to prove that I’m not broken, not too damaged & okay enough for love & intimacy! I’m angry at patriarchy, white supremacy and queerphobia that place doubts about myself in my head & making me feel like they’re my own! I refuse to erase & forget the years I’ve fought to to heal into the wounded healer I’ve become especially in those moments when they feel completely gone! I will celebrate how beautiful it is that despite all of this violence I can fall in love again! I can trust myself to manifest & maintain the joy of interdependent love! #fuckpatriarchy #fuckwhitesupremacy #fuckrapeculture #fuckabusers #angerasselflove
