Mother Karura, I’d like to be a parent one day but I’m non-binary. I don’t know how I would refer to myself, I don’t want to confuse the child. Any advice?
Oh this is a very interesting question. Forgive me if this isn't the best advice. This wasn't talked about when I was growing up, but my advice to you is that in the beginning your child may say mama or dada as that's usually one of their first words, so the first step would be to be patient with your child. Then when they get to an age where they can understand better, say four or five, maybe six, then you could explain to them that you are their parent and explain what non-binary means. Though they may not get it at first, just remember the key is patience. They will come to understand with time, and it may take a bit, but I'm sure your child will be less confused the more you continue to teach them about who you are. I hope this helps in some way, hun. I'm sure you will make a great parent one day, just trust in yourself and do what you believe is right for your child. 🌸💞
